POLL: The big O

I've seen statistics that state 50% to 70% of women can NOT achieve orgasm through sex alone. I'm sure many of them can still get to the big O through oral or manual stimulation, just not through penetration alone


How about you ladies?


 


  I am one of the very lucky women that can achieve orgasm through penetration only, and in fact I have an orgasm pretty much every single time we DTD. If it's a longer session then it's likely I'll get more than one and they're usually BIG ones. I think my DH is spoiled a bit because he barely even has to work for it, no foreplay is even needed for me. Most women I know aren't as easy as I am, if they even have it through sex at all so I was wondering what the general consensus is on here

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 3:17 am
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Im lucky too .... I can achieve one during penetration ....but I can also have one via oral .... but i have noticed something ..... it takes longer for me to have the "O" during oral which is odd because it is my absolute most favorite thing ,  BUT the ones I achieve from oral are more intense and last longer than the ones I have from penetration

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 3:48 am
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that's so funny Niecy because for me it's the exact opposite. the ones I get thru penetration are by FAR way more intense and longer than the ones thru oral or anything else. So much so that I don't even want to bother with getting oral, it's nice but it's not important to me at all. My DH has to almost beg to get to do that to me because I kinda feel it's a waste of time, LOL I'd rather get right to the show! I actually enjoy giving oral more than getting....I think that makes me an anomoly

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 3:56 am
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I am very lucky, I have great ones!  I get them quite frequently and intensely with him on top when we have sex, and I get them from oral which is nice too.

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 4:05 am
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I'm part of that percentage, no matter how hard FI tries, I just can't have one with penetration alone, he has to be doing something simultaneously in order for me to have one.  I thought I was a weirdo but, that's a big percentage.

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 4:11 am
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LOL ...Odessa ...

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 5:11 am
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I think I am probably 50 50 on this one.

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:01 am
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I can have an O through penetration. But I have to be on top.


Never had one through oral though.

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:05 am
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@tktoups I used to be like that, I only had them with me on top. Then I started having them once in a while with me on the bottom. But with my DH I get them every time with him on top, and they're even better than when I'm on top! I guess he was just made for me.....but I still can't have them with him behind me, or at least I've never had one that way YET!

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:09 am
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I'm not consistant.  Sometimes I can by just penetration but not always...  once I've reached the big O once though it's pretty easy for fi to get a repeat action from me again.  love that :)

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:13 am
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I've never had one through just penetration. It has to be combined with something. Maybe it's not enough time?

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:17 am
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Sometimes I can through just penetration.  It's more likely if I'm on top, but it sometimes happens when he is on top.  I can through oral too.

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:22 am
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I think for me, I just have to be really into it. I'm not gonna have it even when I'm on top if I'm not totally into it. Like the times I do it just because he wants to, yeah I know better than to expect it.


I need a lot of foreplay (TMI and at this point I really don't care LOL). If I miss out on that, then nothing is gonna work for me.

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 7:21 am
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I think it depends on how into it I am.  I can get it almost 100% by oral/clit stimulation.  Penetration after I have already achieved one is almost golden.

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 8:04 am
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I get them almost everytime but usually on top. I can have the on the bottom and doggy style as well, but they are not quite as intense. I had never had them any way but on top before FI.

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 10:01 am
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*shrugs* I'm in the percentage of women who are not very orgasmic period.  Doesn't mean I don't enjoy my sex life- it just makes it less about this one thing and more about everything else.  Intensity is a factor though- if I am really into it, it's way more likely.  I've been "doing for myself" since I was a teenager but lost my virginity after I was engaged, which wasn't that long ago- so maybe as we both get better as it and my body gets older/mellows out it'll get easier. :)

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 10:57 am
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I am on and off.  i wish i could get it EVERY time!  i will get it more the ore I am into it and I am almost guaranteed if there is foreplay.  I enjoy oral VERY much and must have it before lol!! 

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 2:55 pm
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Phew.. Ok.. I'm gonna open up here. 


I've never had one.


I really enjoy sex, and my fiance turns me on more than any other man I've ever known. Sex with him is better than with any other person, ever. But no one, ever, has gotten me there. Not even myself. :( I've come way closer with my fiance than with anyone else. I find him SO attractive, I'm always teasing him and asking for it. ;)


I honestly think a lot of it is due to meds--I have to take antidepressants, which can have a big effect. I'm slowly working my way off of them, though. I have been on them for the entirety of my "sexually active" life.  I'm hopeful. Honestly, since I don't know what I'm missing, I still really enjoy our sex life and don't think about it 95% of the time. I try not to get down about it, especially in front of him, because he feels like he's just "not strong enough" or something---and I'm like, honey, you could go for 10 hours and I don't know if my body would do what it's supposed to! Maybe after the first one my body will clue in and realize that's what it's supposed to do.


 

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 5:39 pm
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I have only ever had them with DH - we must be meant to be :)


Penetration and oral - Penetration I have them pretty much everytime if I am on top and usually can do so multi-times and quickly.  Oral takes a long time but it is very intense and sooooo worth it :)

Posted on December 22, 2009 at 2:33 am
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I'm one of those girls that needs something else simultaneously. I'm pretty sure I've come close with just penetration but I'm not 100% sure since I've always needed something else. DH is the only guy I've ever been with that can give me one everytime though.

Posted on December 22, 2009 at 2:44 am
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ditto ChancesAre I am the same exact way

Posted on December 22, 2009 at 5:13 am
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