POLL: Which one of you has the stronger sex drive?

It's an old cliche that men are naturally sex-hungry creatures and women spend most of their time fending off their advances or faking headaches. These days women are embracing their sexuality and getting as much (sometimes even more) out of sex than men. Roles are being reversed and sometimes it's the women begging for more action!


In your relationship who has the stronger sex drive, you or your FH/DH, or are you about the same?


 


I am definitely a bit more sexually driven than my husband.


 

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 5:40 am
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I fit right into the cliche ... :(


I could be thinking about it all day ... and then we cuddle on the couch to watch TV and I get all comfy and then I get sleepy and once I hit sleepy mode Im not inetersted in anything but going to sleep :(


So his drive is a little bigger than mine

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 5:47 am
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LOL Niecy I have definitely done that, fantasized about it all day but the fizzled out when given the chance because I'm all comfy and sleepy

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 5:49 am
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Him! definitely!  He is 7 years younger than I am, and his sex drive leaves me exhausted!

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 5:57 am
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Niecy I'm the exact same way! Once I'm sleepy - get off me lol.


FI def has the stronger sex drive. I've actually noticed a decrease in my sex drive over the past year ish and I hear that BC can cause that. I switched from a "low" BC to regular, so could that be it?!?!

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 5:58 am
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I would say his is. I can at least accept the fact that he will bend over to pick something up and not feel the need to run behind him and pretty much molest him.

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:01 am
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I used to the stronger one.  But since my baby has been about 5 months my libido has dropped drastically

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:02 am
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LMAO @tktoups! Mine does the exact same thing but I LOVE it!

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:06 am
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me by far me...

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:10 am
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Me at the worst times too, like at work (we work together).  I cant tell you how many times we have had sex in his office ;)   But any normal time, its him. 

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:50 am
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Mine is basically 0.  I usually only agree to do it in the first place because I know he wants to.  Once we get started, I get in the mood most of the time, but I pretty much never want to before hand.  I've been on BCP since I became sexually active though, so I don't know if that is what is affecting it.  Sometimes it just isn't very enjoyable because I have some pain during sex that is associated with endometriosis.  :(  I went off BCP a couple of months ago though and it hasn't really gotten any better.

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:52 am
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Well Odessa - You see I can't even bend over to clean the tub. Can't take my shirt off in front of him. It's just insane.

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 7:18 am
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@meany I have the same endo pain with sex...it takes a lot to get through it. At one point in my life it was so bad that I started associating anything sexual at all with pain. SO I didn't even want to be kissed or touched at all. I'm sorry, I empathize. Exerise helped me get better with it. Lube helps as well, so does squeezing and relaxing your kegels a few times..seem to make the ache go away a bit.


 


@tktoups....I totally know what you mean, that's how we end up on the kitchen floor at times, because I was reaching in the oven or something when he walked in. I could be brushing my teeth and bend over to spit and that's all it takes! LOL I understand feeling like it's too much, but you really have to worry when he STOPS doing that! then you'll be like "why don't you get excited everytime I take my shirt off anymore?" LOL

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 7:24 am
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Oh I totally know what you saying. I would like to be able to pass by him without being molested either by him trying to run his foot up my leg and play in areas with his toes LOL. So it's a TMI, but that's apparently what I'm known for on Friday's LOL.


Odessa - It's just sometimes it gets old when you driving down the highway in the freaking rain and he's gonna try to play with the nipples LOL.


You know what really annoys me about it??? He does things he knows I HATE!

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 7:28 am
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Me, I guess.  His is pretty low, but it's due to some medication he's on.  Once we're married we may have to go talk to his doctor about switching him to something with less side effects.

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 7:47 am
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FI definitely.  I'm here in guam for 2 months and havent touched myself once.  I believe he's gotten a virus on my computer from watching too much porn in my absence. lol

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 7:53 am
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LOL that's a great point of reference. When my DH was away for a month I definitley had to take care of business more often than he did

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 7:55 am
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we're about the same

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 4:35 pm
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ah in the office JoyAngela? I tried that once while visiting FI at his work but he got scared and said someone might walk in. haha. I def have my moments but FI is along the lines of what Tktoups is talking about also so he wins higher sex drive

Posted on December 21, 2009 at 6:15 pm
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It's definitely me...we joke that our gender roles are switched when it comes to sex.

Posted on December 22, 2009 at 6:32 am
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Mi FI hands down, he wants to DTD 3 times a day.....and I do not even have the urge to DTD more than once a week...damn those BCP's

Posted on December 22, 2009 at 6:39 am
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