Poll: would you invite one of your friends that your FI does not like?
Long Story Short: I have a work colleague who used to be a good friend. I have distanced myself from this person because of drama that she creates. We are still friendly but we no longer hang out as we used to.
My FI was consulting for her on a project and he told her something in confidence about a work project. he sometimes handles hazardous materials- which WE agreed he would cut back on doing (he simply makes more money doing it but we agreed he would cut down the activity) and he told HER that he was considering a large project of this nature.
She told me and I got very upset with him. It has caused a rift- they no longer speak. I hold him responsible, though I am over it. I know she presented it to me in the most dramatic way possible, which did not help the situation. At the time, I was VERY pissed at him.
So now- it is time to make our guest list for an elopement celebration. i feel I need to include her and he doesn't want her there. I think he has to 'suck it up' in this situation because he was in the wrong. I have honored his feelings up until now (not inviting her to our parties, only seeing her for lunch w/o him etc) but I feel this celebration will be too big a snub and she is a colleague (we don't work together, but she is in my industry and can and has referred clients to me)
what would you do?