Post baby healing time?
We finally told our family and friends this past weekend about the baby. I feel relieved but now the questions from others begun. My due date is 5/11 and dh is in a wedding on 5/25 and a relative is getting married on 5/26 oot. The wedding is in California and we live in Ohio. If I deliver around the time of my edc then it will put me at 2 weeks postpartum. I was asked will I be attending the wedding on 5/25(local) and I replied probably not because it will only be 2 weeks and I might be breastfeeding. The bride replied I can pump and still come to the wedding.
Then his aunt asked about the other wedding, which is the next day in Cali. Frankly, with us in the process of purchasing a home, moving, getting nursery in order I think this expense is too much, and that would require my dh to be gone oot and I would not have help. The wedding is on a Sunday so he would probably not return back home till Monday. His aunt said I would be fine if he goes out of town and be left alone. I just feel like I have no compassion from others and people think it would be okay for my husband to go traveling across the country and leave his wife with a new baby alone. If you think about it; he will be busy that Friday for the rehearsal practice and bach party. The Saturday of the wedding he will be busy doing bestmen duties and gone all day. I would have my fil give me a ride and find a babysitter for that wedding, since the wedding is adults only. Then the next day he leaves to go out of town for a wedding and I would be left home. I feel that is too much for me to handle in a course of a few days after having a baby.