Pretty Sure I'm M/C

I woke up this morning and felt some blood pass before I even got up (like when you wake up with your period). Went to the bathroom and it was bright red, continuing with some more and tissue :( I do have some cramping in lower abdomen, but I've had worse during periods so not unbearable. Here's my dilemma now... No insurance and no set doctor. I made an appointment at the health clinic to confirm the pregnancy when I got BFP, but they couldn't get me in until Monday. I planned to look into insurance after the pregnancy was confirmed. So I don't know if I should call the clinia and tell them what's going on, and still go Monday if nothing else to make sure I passed everything or if there's even anyone I can talk to. Ugh. I feel like this is such a mess now. And I'm so close with my family especially my mom and my sister and we haven't told anyone, so it's hard keeping this from them, too. But they didn't know we were TTC and I don't want to tell them we were, but this happened... I'll be able to get on my husband's insurance in April, but because they only review it once a year I was going to look into my own separately in the mena time. When he signed up for him at the time it was too expensive for both of us to be on it, so I told him I'd wait or look into my own.

Posted on October 17, 2012 at 2:23 am
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I'm so sorry you're going through this.  *Hugs*  I lost my first L/O to a miscarriage.  You still need to see someone in case you haven't fully miscarried, even if you just go to the ER or something.  I would try to get in before Monday though, 4 days is a lot of time to be dealing with this without knowing everything has passed.

Posted on October 17, 2012 at 5:41 am
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Ohh I am so sorry :( I totally understand the whole insurance stress you are having. I also had no insurance when I found out I was pregnant (we were not TTC though). I agree with AuntTate. You shoult try to see someone just in case. There can be a risk of infection :(
I hope you and your DH take some time for each other. Please keep us updated.
Posted on October 17, 2012 at 7:44 am
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I'm sorry to hear your going through this lex. Ditto the girls I wouldn't wait for monday, maybe call and see if they can get you in or maybe go to the er or an urgent care center.

Sending my t &p's!
Posted on October 17, 2012 at 3:17 pm
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I'm sorry to hear this news :( 

Posted on October 19, 2012 at 8:59 am

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