Pushed the date back because I can't make a decision!!!

I'm feeling so overwhelmed and frustrated trying to pick a resort for our destination wedding.  There is so much to think about and I have changed my mind several times.   It's to the point that we have had to change our date from August 2014 to April of 2015 so I have time to do everything. 

Anyone else freak out when you actually started planning? 

Posted on October 21, 2013 at 10:02 am
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 The whole process can be very overwhelming, I think most of us went through the feeling at some point.

my best advice for you is to sit down with your FI and decide what you both want. Once those decisions are made you can look for resorts that come closest to your desires and vendors that can provide your vision.  If your vision is clear before you start shopping it will make it easier to make decisions.

good luck xxx

Posted on October 21, 2013 at 11:35 am
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 Yes, I'M ACUTALLY THERE...LOL.  It becomes so real and scary!  I'm sure once you start making and trusting your decisions things will come together quite nicely.

Good luck to you. 

Posted on October 21, 2013 at 1:11 pm
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Thanks ladies!  It's nice to know I am not alone :)  I am hoping once I get past the decision of where and when, the rest will be easier.  

You guys are great!

Posted on October 21, 2013 at 1:40 pm
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We did that too! I wanted to do 11-11-11... but found out I would still be student teaching at that time :( We ended up pushing it to 2-4-12, and it worked out GREAT! :) I had a lot of fun spending the time making a lot of things. :) no worries! 

Posted on October 21, 2013 at 11:36 pm
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Yes definitely. I couldnt decide on a venue. My FI wanted to move ours from April 2015 to Oct 2014 but everything is booked so we are back to our original date. It gi es me more time to make sure everything is the way I want.
Posted on October 21, 2013 at 11:37 pm
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You guys are making me feel so much better, thank you!  I definately want to take my time and enjoy the whole process, this is supposed to be fun right?  :)  

KimandByron:  Looks like we are April 2015 buddies then!  Have you started dress shopping yet? 

Posted on October 22, 2013 at 7:44 am
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I freaked out at first, but I've been planning my wedding before we actually got engaged. ;) 
You will definitely feel better with having the time to plan everything out!

Posted on October 22, 2013 at 4:42 pm
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 I am a wedding planner and would be happy to help if you need me.

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