Put your best bridesmaid's foot forward

I've changed my bridesmaid dress & now the shoe the ladies wear will be seen. Is it micromanagement to pick their shoe or do I just tell them I want them to wear a nude shoe? The dress is convertible and shoes will be seen especially during the reception. The color of their dress isn't what's in the photo. It is red. What should I do?


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Posted on May 7, 2013 at 11:53 am
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MOBRIDE72
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I just plan to tell my girls what color and let them choose the style. I know for myself I do best in heels if they have a strap.

Posted on May 7, 2013 at 11:59 am
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They are picking there own shoes, as long as they are black, They are church girls meaning some refuse to wear a shoe with their toes out.

Posted on May 7, 2013 at 2:48 pm
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Why not pick a couple styles in a couple price ranges and let each girl pick a pair from the choices. That way you can pick the shoes but are still giving them a choice of what works for them. BTW....The dress is amazing!!!

Posted on May 8, 2013 at 4:24 am
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Thanks for your help ladies!!! In sure we will make it work.
Posted on May 8, 2013 at 3:19 pm
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What I did was to tell them to get thier shoes. I specified color (silver) then I also specified that I wanted them to get peep-toes or covered shoes, with high heels. Everyone complied, and the look was uniform though they all had their individual choices reflected in the shoes they bought.

Posted on June 10, 2013 at 10:49 pm
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I think it's easier on all of you if you let them pick any style in a certain color. That way you don't have to worry about the hassle of them ordering a certain kind if they can't find them in stock or whatever. I know I had that prioblem, we eventually found 4 pairs in the same style but it took some doing and I was having to chase people down.

Posted on June 11, 2013 at 2:01 am

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