Okay so yesterday FI, FSD and myself where in the grocery store picking up some last minute items for dinner. As we stand in the check out line FSD and I are goofing off and playing with each other when these two girls walk up behind us, they are carrying on their conversation when one stops and asks the other, “What issues do you have being biracial? Because I know that little girl (referring to FSD) is going to have some major issues!” I was thinking to myself I know she didn’t just fix her lips to say that, so I look back at her to let her know that she was crossing the line and she rolled her eyes at me so I just rolled my eyes back at her!
Well the other little skank says that she doesn’t have issues because her black mama instilled in her that it’s better to be black than to be anything else. What? Are you freaking kidding me? The nerve of this lady to assume that we don’t teach FSD about both of her ethnicities! I’m not her mother but I am minoring in Black Studies, this is what I do all day long and for some little trollop in the store to accuse FI and I of not making sure that she’s well aware of herself is ridiculous! She then launches into how black women really shouldn’t be dating outside of there race and that just because I had a child with someone outside of my race doesn’t mean that I have to be tied to them for the rest of my life. First of all take a look at FI, FSD and myself you can tell that FI is her father:
They were both idiots! I shouldn’t have let it bother me but it did. I guess I just don’t understand why people feel the need to question or comment on a relationship that has nothing to do with them. If you don’t agree then disagree silently don’t voice your opinion especially when it involves other people children!