My bridesmaids will be having black knee length dresses, and I thought it would be cute if they wore red shoes like me with their dress for a little splash of color. Well they all agreed on the dress this weekend (thank god), but then when I mentioned the red shoes...they all started wispering and talking sh*# about the idea. They said they would never wear red shoes again in their life if they bought them. WTH? Totally bummed me out :(!! I though it would be cute and fun and add a little something different, but now I'm not sure. What do you guys think?