Removing ourselves from toxic inlaws
So I think most of you know about my situation with my inlaws. We don't see eye to eye on morals and general lifestyle. My SIL likes to rub it in that she got pregnant by accident and I have fertility issues and am having a hard time conceiving. The entire family does drugs and we are having a hard time thinking about them being around our child when we do finally have a baby.
My MIL treats my DH like crap. She has ruined our finances and credit for the long term, making it impossible for us to buy a home. She uses us and only calls when she wants something, and then says really rude things when we can't help her.
My BIL is a stoner with no purpose in life, when we go over there he hides in his bedroom and ignores us knocking at the door.
Anyway! So I'm sure you've all heard story after story. It has gotten a lot worse in the last year. Last year before our wedding we decided to move back to our home town where we both grew up with our families. To be around family because they "missed us" when we moved back, the shit hit the fan. They have been rude and we feel so unwelcome here. We moved back for them, and they have only been to our place (two blocks from their house) twice in the last year.
SO we have decided to move back to where we came from (about an hour north from where we are) Greeley, CO. It was always a nice distance from them for privacy and drama reasons, and if they miss us so much, they can make the effort to drive up and see us. There were things we hated about Greeley, but when we look back there were a lot of things we miss as well. I once thought this was my home town... but I was wrong. when DH and I made a life for ourselves in Greeley, we made it home. So it's time to go home ...