I am planning on a Septemebr 11, 2009 wedding. I have chosen this date because it is a 4th generation wedding date in my family; my parents, my mother's parents, and my mother's grandparents.
This date is important to me and means a lot to my family but it's hard to take in the reaction from people when I tell them the date I have chosen. Most of the time, after explaining the tradition, people politely accept the date, but sometimes the feeling remains negative.
How do I overcome this negativity? Should I not choose this date? Am I just too sensitive?