Short or long BM dresses?? NEED ADVICE!!
good morning y'all!!!
soooo i feel like i'm in a rut! i feel like its so early to make decisions on the BM dresses...... wedding is 11/5/11... but since i entered the moonlight contest, i won free 5 BM dresses!!! i have to decide on the dresses by the end of this month pretty much...
i want to have a romantic feel to the girl's dresses. so i'm thinking chamuese/satin/silk kind of fabrics and having them long. but thing is, the manufacture doesnt do a lot of dresses in these fabrics... its mainly poly chiffon! so i asked if i can change fabrics, which they are happy to do but will charge $50 more on each dress.
but the thing now is that my job security is pretty unstable now! :( other day they said that we are only safe for a year! so i'm scared to proceed more with the wedding and started to think more about doing a destination wedding.
so if i decide to go that route, then things change with the BM dresses! i could go with short poly chiffon dresses. and i've been looking and i actually like the short poly chiffon dresses better! they're really cute! but now, see the thing is i still dont know what to do! whether i want to do a destination wedding or not! so now i'm stuck on what to decide on my BM dresses... AHh!! if i STICK with the short poly chiffon dresses, i wouldnt have to pay more money... but if i go with the long dresses i'll have to pay extra money..
but i'm TRYING to save money where i can.... ya feel me on this? wow i just never knew these things can put a big strain on you!!! what should i do? do you girls think that if i just go with the short poly chiffon, it'll still have that romantic feel? i think its more on the casual/beachy side... or am i crazy?! *sigh*... someone help...!