I feel like I'm posting too much but I'm getting in a panic about my October trip to California to finalise all of the wedding plans.
I need advice about my shower. I wasn't too fussed about having one as it won't be a traditional shower in the sense of me registering and then people bringing and watching me open gifts. It's just too hard to transport stuff so when we ultimately register we'll register with a shop in Australia where people can buy gifts online and they'll be sent to us here.
So, the suggestion has been to tell people shower gifts are optional but if they want to bring something then they can bring something small like kitchen linens or even a recipe. Do you think that's okay? It's a bit difficult as I don't want to say no gifts because I know some of my aunts and friends may want to bring something but I also don't want to end up with a bunch of glasses or kitchen things that I'll have to leave behind.