Just wondering how many showers you girls are having. I have a really large family and quite a few close friends. I really would prefer to just have one shower (I don't like the party being all about me!) and I don't want my BMs to have to give up a Sat. or Sun. twice for the sake of a shower! But my mom is insistant that I have two (I have had two people offer, my MOH and my God Mother). She heard that 15-20 people is the appropriate size for a shower. She also thinks I would be offending someone if I suggest that we combine them. Any advice appreciated!