SIL again... Should I??

I've posted a few times about what an AW she is and literally ruined my shower by making it all about her, ignoring me completely and just being plan mean and rude. I have no idea where all of this b&#$iness is from.... but I haven't bowed to her and I keep ignoring it because she wants me to pay attention to it and therefore her!


At my shower when we were talking about our wedding dinner menu, she said "Ohh...your main entree is steak?" I need to order vegetarian then." She is NOT a vegetarian and eats meat and steak....her sister even gave her a look and said " You are turning down steak??" 


I ignored it and said.. sure.. I'll e-mail you the vegetarian menu, please choose one and I'll tell the venue. The next day I e-mailed it to her.


Well that was TWO MONTHS ago... she never e-mailed me back about what vegetarian option she wants and we have to tell the venue this week!




  • So I do be a big B^%h back and not remind her that she didn't choose and let her deal with her steak that day? ( there will be 6 courses... and a large pasta one before so its not like she'll go hungry) 

  • Or do I be the bigger person again and ask FI to call her and ask?


Ohhh how I so want to do option 1!! LOL 

Posted on July 24, 2010 at 9:36 am
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I would ignore the situation and serve her a big ol' steak on the wedding day! LOL! If she's so "concerned" about having a vegetarian meal, then she should've gotten back to you. It's not your problem since you've given her the info and she hasn't gotten back to you.


 

Posted on July 24, 2010 at 1:06 pm
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I know some people will say to be the bigger person, but I say to enjoy it and give her a big ol' steak!!  

Posted on July 24, 2010 at 1:18 pm
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lol. you ladies are funny. personally i would either make her eat the steak. or i would tell FI to call her and deal with it cause i would refuse to!!!! either way you decide don't put up with her crap yourself.

Posted on July 25, 2010 at 2:05 am
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The evil fed-up part of me wants to grin like a happy baby when she gets served that steak and tries to say "no I ordered vegetarian" so I can interrupt and say.. actually you didn't! LOL


The other side says.... let FI call her and get it sorted out.....


Then I think.... she may end up changing her mind that day to be difficult anyway... so this just might be a no win situation!


So far... that steak is totally winning over the phone call in my mind.... lol

Posted on July 25, 2010 at 3:30 am
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I would make the decision. If you know it's her being picky and snotty, versus an actual issue, just make the choice. You gave her the opportunity. Don't chase her and give her more power and attention. That's what she wants. If she complains or says ANYTHING, just tell her that you gave her the opportunity, and she opted not to choose, so you made the decision, since it is your day.

Posted on July 25, 2010 at 8:35 am
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give her steak =) she deserves it, lol

Posted on August 23, 2010 at 6:21 pm
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I agree with everyone, let her eat steak. If she didn't respond in time then it's up to you to make the decision for her. If you know she really is a vegitarian then choose one of those options for her, but if not then steak it is!

Posted on August 24, 2010 at 4:31 am

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