So heartbroken :(
Have any of you guys lost friends because of your pregnancy/birth of a LO?
DH and I were hanging out with one of my best friends over the weekend and just mentioned how fun it would be to take a Memorial Day weekend trip to Savannah, GA which is 5 hours away from us. We said we would try to work it out if we could.
But after looking at our finances from buying baby furniture and knowing how many future baby expenses we have ahead of us, we decided we just need to stay home. When we told my friend we just couldn't do it, she sent me a text that said, "Ok...last Saturday we agreed on it, so next time u guys switch plans please tell me...bc my dad asked to come visit and I said no bc I believed u guys were sticking w/ what u said."
Excuuuuuse me? It had been all of 3 days and they weren't even set plans. So now I'm pretty ticked at her. I swear people really have no idea what kind of toll a baby will take on your life. It just makes me so mad when people don't understand and want to pitch a tantrum about the most selfish things.