So many SELFISH people!!!!!!

I need to get this off of my chest..... with all the RSVP drama... I've really come to realize just who truly loves us and cherishes us... and who are the selfish people I was fooled into thinking were "friends". Another one of my "friends" just backed out of her Yes RSVP... apologizing for telling us yes, and hoping it wasn't too late to back out because she gets tired these days and can't imagine travelling 2 hours..... ARE YOU KIDDING ME???? We already submitted our numbers... and I flat out told her we did. I am SO MAD. SO SO SO MAD!


 

Posted on July 26, 2010 at 8:30 am
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I think that is so rude!!  Don't people understand that a lot of things are paid for by person?  If they said yes, they need to keep that commitment.  It's not like we all have money to just throw around!  I think that is totally rude of your friend, and her excuse?  LAME.  I would reconsider your friendship with this lady...

Posted on July 26, 2010 at 8:41 am
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I am SO SO MAD with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!


What a whore she is.


((HUGS!))

Posted on July 26, 2010 at 8:47 am
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I would be mad too...


Sorry Girlly... {{hugs}}

Posted on July 26, 2010 at 8:49 am
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*hugs* I'm sorry, I'd be mad too. You're getting really close now though....so try not to let all this stuff get to you..try to enjoy the good and fun stuff coming up :D It's their loss!

Posted on July 26, 2010 at 9:07 am
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THANK YOU girls..... your words really mean a lot to me! I'm so furious and hurt I can't describe it! I've had so many "friends" flake.... its just ridiculous! You don't tell the host 2 weeks out that you've changed your mind... sorry... I must say I'm grateful she at least told me instead of standing me up... but either way I'm paying for her and her husbands plate! WTH is wrong with ppl... her wedding was just last year.... do they forget this easily?? I will NEVER put another bride through the mess my guests have put me in....


Kaytana... I'm trying my hardest to focus on the good and the fun! These ppl suck... they are missing out SO bad its not even funny! lol They'll be kicking themselves when they see the pictures!!

Posted on July 26, 2010 at 9:32 am
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People do suck!  We had 8 no show's at our wedding...4 of them replied no on the RSVP then changed their mind and we WORKED them back into the seating chart and they DIDN'T show up...didn't even send a card or anything.


Our wedding was in October - can you tell I'm still mad :)

Posted on July 26, 2010 at 9:48 am
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OMG.... princess... *huge hugs* You can stay mad as long as you like.... you definitely have good reason to! I'm so shocked at the rudeness... just horrible!!!

Posted on July 26, 2010 at 10:18 am
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Ha, thanks Girlly :)


The good thing is I did not let it ruin my wedding day!  BUT the next day was another story!


Annnnddd - they aren't you "true" friends if they don't want to be part of your special day, so screw them!!!!!!

Posted on July 27, 2010 at 2:21 am
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What the?! That's just plain RUDE RUDE RUDE!!!! You can't come to your friend's wedding because lately you've been tired?!?! Who uses that excuse to get out of an event??? She's lame, don't even bother with her!! Let me and FI come to your wedding and done! :) j/k!! hehe No, seriously don't let her get to you, it is her loss! I'm pretty sure that two other friends or distant family members would LOVE to join in on your party? ;)

Posted on July 27, 2010 at 2:52 am
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I can understand why you are mad.  Her reasoning though makes me think she is preggers and doesn't want to tell people that yet. 

Posted on July 27, 2010 at 5:53 am
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Awww, I'm so sorry to hear about that - RSVPs are frustrating at the best of times, but that kind of excuse is just rubbish! Maybe hmz819 has a point... there must be something she's covering up with that lame excuse, especially after they initially said they WOULD be coming.


But yeah, just try and find another friend, work buddy or whoever to fill their place if you're paying for it anyway.

Posted on July 27, 2010 at 1:23 pm
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R u serious????...I have been tired lately...WOW!!! that was an excuse?? I would definetly use that back on her for something. Man the RSVP drama I am having is ridicluous, but ppl don't realize how selfish they are when it is done to them. I have one person a close friend who I actually complained to  aboout how ppl are trying to add additional ppl and substitute ppl who didn't RSVP, and you know she had the nerves to say she wanted to bring someone else b/c she don't know the area, and it is supposed to make me feel better becasue she remebers me, but I don't remeber her like who does that? Man I told her I will se of course I'm like hell to the no.

Posted on July 28, 2010 at 6:16 pm
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ARG! That makes me mad, too. We had more than one wishy-washy person tell us they weren't coming, then they were coming, and of course they didn't show up in the end. So here I paid $4 a chair to have empty seats at my wedding!

Posted on July 29, 2010 at 12:16 pm
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Ugh... thank you ladies....I stayed cool and calm about it.... there isn't much I can do, their seats are paid for and they will be empty... if she can live with that then our friendship is not what I thought it was.


Hmz... who knows? She could be... but I would have loved a better excuse and by phone at least... it was done over facebook for crying out loud! :(


I'm just hurt and angry..... but I'm trying focus on the positives!!

Posted on July 29, 2010 at 2:22 pm

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