Stopping through to say hello

I haven't been on here in a few months, dealing with some things. Some good some not so good.  But I just wanted to say hello to all the beautiful ladies and wish everyone happiness.

Posted on May 8, 2013 at 9:56 am
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Uhlease
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Hi Lita! Hope all is ok-thanks for stopping by!!
Posted on May 8, 2013 at 11:56 am
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Hi Lita, I pray things get better!!!

Posted on May 8, 2013 at 1:58 pm
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Hi Lita! I said a prayer for you! If you ever need anyone to talk to feel free to inbox me (;
Posted on May 8, 2013 at 2:52 pm
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Good to see you Lita, hoping that things work their way out and your back to PW soon!


 

Posted on May 9, 2013 at 1:52 am
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Nice to see you back Lita! Sending good wishes your way!

Posted on May 9, 2013 at 3:12 am
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Hello My Lita! I was wondering where you had been! I pray all will be well soon and can't wait for you to come back to PW and share your married life!

Posted on May 9, 2013 at 3:33 am
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Thank you ladies. Sorry this is a little long: I'm just been building up the courage to tell my mom she may need to go back to live in Detroit for awhile because it's hard on me having her live with DH & I. She's unemployed & haven't been able to find employment in the 4 years we've been in Georgia & I honestly do believe that she needs to spend time with my 90 year old granny. I'm going to talk with her tonight but my mom is not the easiest person to talk with sometimes especially if she feels like someone is against her, which I'm not, but that's the extreme she goes to. She's been with us for 6months which was right after we got back from our honeymoon. DH has been great about it & it bothers me more than him except when she has interferred with us. I didn't give her a deadline & don't know why I thought it would only be a short time but I never thought I would spend the beginning of my marriage with any adult relative living with us. She never goes anywhere which is another issue because we never have the place to ourselves. Even if she stays in her room because we have an apartment so we still know she's here & not truly alone. I don't want to hurt her but its hard on me because she has a habit of taking over. I believe my Granny needs her more than I do right now but she is refusing to move back to Detroit. I've been truly stressing & I don't want it to affect my marriage.
Posted on May 10, 2013 at 11:52 pm
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WOW! that's tough in the first years of your marriage. Maybe if you explain it to her the way you just explained it in your writing it may go over bad but not as bad as you think. Have you asked her why she does not want to come  back? Does she not want the responsibility of taking care of your grandmother? I'm sure this is going to be a tough talk but it has to be done.

Posted on May 11, 2013 at 6:25 am
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I don't think theres any true reason why she doesn't want to move back. My granny is very independent and don't like anyone to do things for her but she is losing her vision. Five of my grannys children are in Detroit but I think my mom will truly regret it if she doesn't spend this time with her while she can. There is nothing holding her in Georgia. My brother and his family are in Detroit as well as my dad, they're divorced but still communicate. I just finish talking to my dad and he feels the same way I do about my mom spending time with her mom, he goes to see my granny everyday, so he knows the state shes in, and I'm convinced even more that she needs to be there.

Posted on May 11, 2013 at 6:56 am
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What a tough situation! I will being saying a prayer and keep us posted on the results! 

Posted on May 14, 2013 at 5:26 am

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