STRESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

so first my FI gets fired...I am a disabled stay at home mom ( i really wish i could go to work, i could make way more than him, my education has gone to waste, but thats another story) i can only shudder of the thought of where we will be in a month or so.


then i told my dad im going to need some money to start buying things for the wedding (in march, he offered to pay for it) and he said its not a good time to wait until after december, WTF? thats cutting it close! i need to start now! why did he just take a european vaca, the second this year and buy a harley but aaaaaaaaaaaaaah he is stressing me out, all these men are stressing me out. thank god my mom paid for my dress.

Posted on September 23, 2008 at 6:29 pm
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It's really hard when you have no control over either situation. I'm sorry.

Posted on September 23, 2008 at 6:45 pm
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omg... i'm so sorry to hear about this!!!!


 


can we do anything to help??  help you look for better deals on wedding-related items to off-set the original projected cost??

Posted on September 23, 2008 at 6:46 pm
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I remember when Mitch and I first got engaged.  We couldn't afford a photographer. He was making shit money as was I. Because we'd moved to a different county to be with his Best Guy friend.  Then they stopped talking because the guy didn't want us to be together.  We were broke and $1,200 was impossible to get when we were just making enough to cover rent and bills.  Then everything changed out of nowhere. Everything just happened for us. Out of nowhere and unexpectedly.


Keep your faith and keep things in perspective. Dont' be stubborn and set on one thing. If you have to change your date, don't feel as if it is a personal defeat.  I know I'm stubborn and like a child, can not imagine not getting what I want when I want it. That's not good. A wedding should be a time of joy. You have to have your priorities set.    Ohh yeah, I lost my job when we got engaged to!!!

Posted on September 23, 2008 at 7:24 pm
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uh, we had to move our church weddindate twice b/c fh was laid off for 8 months!!! 

Posted on September 23, 2008 at 7:31 pm
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awwww! (((((hugs))))) iam sorry to hear! keep your chin up! things will get better! i think we all go through tough times! i know we have!

Posted on September 23, 2008 at 10:00 pm

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