Suggestions or tell me to get over it?
So my wonderful husband and I got married a few months ago. Our wedding was beyond amazing! At first I was a little sore because I had originally not wanted a big affair and was adamant on absolutely needing a honeymoon. But I caved and decided to go along with things and I'm glad we did because our wedding was beautiful and hubby couldn't take off of work for more then a day. So I settled for a short staycation in town at a nice hotel... Hubby delivered that fine.
Ive traveled very little in my life so I was still dreaming up a honeymoon for us. Originally I wanted to leave the state and then decided how about just a road trip or a cruise?? Finally money was tight and I just thought of city hopping to visit some friends. I had planned to pick a week in the summer cause hubby is off for the summer and I still had a weeks vacation to take. I had also planned on buying a new car because I desperately need it and that would have been our transportation. But then I got laid off, so no more car, no more money, no more vacation.
I just came home from my brother in laws wedding and I guess I'm a bit jealous that they are off for a week long maybe longer honeymoon after they had originally told us they couldn't get the time off. I've also sort of held it over my husband's head a few times because he was the one who wanted the big affair... But I'm happy with the way things ended up. I just can't get over the idea of never having a honeymoon. I know it's just a vacation and what's important is that I married the man I love... I just dunno. Suggestions to just get over it? (I keep telling myself comparison is the thief of joy. And I do believe it but yeah. :P )
i dunno just venting I guess.