Thank you gifts for bachelorette party?

I bought gifts for each of my BM and wrote personal thank you notes to go with.


I sent a thank you card to each BM for my gift and for the shower.


I bought thank you gifts for my MOH and the BM who did the bulk of the work for my shower and wrote a little note to go with.


My MOH is also the one putting together my bachelorette party. I know the other girls are helping a bit. Do I buy presents for all of them? My MOH only? No gifts and just thank them? What's the protocol here?


(My bachelorette party, btw, involves local dinner and drinks on a Friday night, sleepover, then Atlantic City on Saturday - meaning the beach, then lunch and dinner out, and clubs and gambling at night, plus a hotel room and breakfast the next morning.)


Suggestions?


 

Posted on April 19, 2011 at 6:11 am
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Hmm...tough one. I bought my girls something, but it was because it was a laid back weekend and there were some shower-like activities in there!


Maybe you could simply treat them to something? Like breakfast on Sunday, to thank them? :-)

Posted on April 19, 2011 at 6:14 am
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I didn't know you gave gifts for a bachelorette party. I thought it was just for the shower. Both my shower and bach are the same day and I was only planning on one gift for the shower. (basket, full size body wash, full size lotion, flip flops, Chest's sugar scrub and a candle).  I hope I'm not supposed to get something else for the bach party!

Posted on April 19, 2011 at 6:23 am
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Not sure what to suggest.
We had  a nice luncheon at my house and my little sister hand designed wine glasses for each guest that showed up. Each was different and everyone was floored when they were told to pick the one they wanted. It was a unique and usable gift.

Posted on April 19, 2011 at 7:47 am
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SoonToBe - that's a really sweet idea!


Debbie - I like the Sunday breakfast idea, too!


Sunny - Thanks for reminding me about the sugar scrub! I almost forgot to put that in the shower thank you gift package!

Posted on April 19, 2011 at 8:24 am
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so are there supposed to be gifts for both the shower and the bachelorette party?


 


you're welcome FCTF!!

Posted on April 19, 2011 at 11:14 am
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Sunny, I think you'll be fine. Your events are the same day, so it makes sense to give a thank you for your overall special day. Plus you're giving something really nice, so I think that covers it all!
Posted on April 19, 2011 at 11:48 am
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Ditto, FCTF! I think you are good, Sunny!


On a random side note, I used Chest's sugar scrub before my shower on Saturday, and multiple people commented that my skin looked like it was glowing. Ridiculously soft and glowing?! Yes, please! And, when one person mentioned it, my MOH said that she had to hide hers (part of her bach/shower gift) bc her boyfriend was using it all :-D That scrub is my favorite thing ever :-)

Posted on April 19, 2011 at 11:57 am

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