The Bridesmaid Chronicles-Firing a bridesmaid
Hi ladies! Don't get me wrong. I have no intentions on having any issues with my chosen ladies, however, I also know that sometimes it's inevitable. Have you ever had to or thought of firing a bridesmaid? Yesterday I contemplated it. Our first wedding meeting with the entire wedding party was held yesterday afternoon. Notifications went out in advance after everyone confirmed they could make it-February 18th to be exact. On Saturday, reminders were sent out and at that time everyone confirmed. Well... 15 minutes prior to the meeting, I get a text from one of my bridesmaids that said her boyfriend, who lives out of state, came in town to surprise her (which I'd read on Facebook the night prior) and she probably wouldn't make the meeting because they were going to get something to eat. **blank stare** Really? Well why couldn't he come along it was only a hour? If anything, she could have at least shown up and they could have eaten at the meeting or gone out afterwards. Or even stopped by for a few to introduce herself to everyone else and grab a bit of info. I dunno, to me that just made me feel like my meeting/event wasn't important enough and I don't want anyone like that standing up there with me. Now I do know that things happen and that things could change at any moment but I am feeling some type of way about this one. Please give me some feedback ladies! What would you do???
Posted on March 10, 2014 at 2:47 am