The groomsmen have turned

So after a month or so of planning, some of the groomsmen have gotten together and decided that they don't think this wedding is a good idea. The best man and one of my groom's friends who is not in the party came to me and said that they are going to do everything they can to make sure this wedding falls through. Talk about major betrayal!


I know that our wedding will still happen. I'm not worried that they will succeed, but now my FI and I not only have to find a couple new groomsmen (thank God it wasn't all of them), but we also have to endure a year of hell in the form of whatever these guys are planning. I think I hate them.

Posted on April 17, 2010 at 9:58 am
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demyful
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WTF??? That's very childish on their part. Of course they won't succeed. Sorry you and FI are dealing with this. Sometimes your so called friends can be your worst enemies. (((hugs)))

Posted on April 17, 2010 at 10:07 am
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That's terrible. Why do they think that way?

Posted on April 17, 2010 at 10:08 am
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Wow! That is unbelivable!! Why are they acting that way?

Posted on April 17, 2010 at 10:19 am
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 i'm so sorry.  i can't believe someone would act that way....especially the best man!  this is not their decision to make.  just keep doing what you're doing :)

Posted on April 17, 2010 at 10:26 am
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I don't even know what they're problem is. Apparently they want us to wait until we graduate from college, but we don't want to wait and our families don't think we should wait, and the majority of our friends don't think we should wait. It's just them. I'm so frustrated. They've never really liked me, but I thought I had finally gained their respect at least. Apparently not.

Posted on April 17, 2010 at 10:33 am
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Ouch! That's horrible, lyfe_girl. I hope they realize that this is a pretty much guaranteed way to destroy their relationship with your FI. Even if (heaven forbid) things were to not work out with you and your FI, your FI will always remember that these guys weren't willing to support him, and in fact were willing to sabotage his happiness. :(

Posted on April 17, 2010 at 10:51 am
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OMGSH!!!!!!!!!!! Who does that?!?!?!


Wow...so sorry you're going through this... Let us know if you need the PW girls to hunt these A-holes down and take care of them for you :)

Posted on April 17, 2010 at 11:05 am
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wow.  that's awful.  at least they told your FI to his face instead of weird mysterious suspicious things happening like in this movie i just watched called unhitched.  how cruel.  i'm sorry.

Posted on April 17, 2010 at 4:51 pm
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WTF!! how horrible! Im so sorry you have to go through this. Are these suppose to be his friends? what kind of friends are those. I hope he told them where to stick it.

Posted on April 17, 2010 at 5:54 pm
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If you love FI, and FI loves you, his nosey little friends need to back off!!  You guys are young, which plays into how immature his friends are being.  I remember when I was your age, guys seemed to think it was the time to go sew their wild oats, and they pressure their friends to do the same.


If they want to be whiney little babies, fine.  Your FI wants to marry you, and that is that, who cares what anyone else says or does?!?!

Posted on April 19, 2010 at 8:27 am
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Wow - these immature jerks need to back the f*ck off! Or else they'll feel the wrath of a thousand brides on PW!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted on April 19, 2010 at 8:40 am
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Jerks!  I think you should shank 'em!  Oh, wait...that's not legal?  hmmmm... 


Seriously though, they are way out of line.  The one good thing is that you are finding out now while you can still replace them.  Sorry FI is losing his friends though.  That has to be tough.

Posted on April 19, 2010 at 9:15 am
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What in the world is the matter with them? Who does or even says they're going to do something like that?? How sad that they consider themselves "friends" of your FI when they are against him doing what makes him happy. Shame on them!!

Posted on April 19, 2010 at 9:31 am
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Talk to your Fi about this! He needs to know what they are planning and that they want you two to break up.


 


He must be informed cause that is not how real friends acts.

Posted on April 20, 2010 at 12:56 am
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Wow, I've never heard of people (men?) doing that before.

Posted on April 20, 2010 at 1:49 pm
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**hugs** what mfers! Grr this really upsets me. Why can't they grow up, and let your FI make his own choices? 


Sorry that you are going through this.

Posted on April 20, 2010 at 3:51 pm

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