things you need help with

So we all have things we are great at, but what about the areas that your not-so-hott in.


Im horrible at being on top. I dont know what it is, maybe the fact that I hate my weight, IDK.

Posted on December 26, 2009 at 7:13 pm
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I could be a lot more comfortable with my body. I don't exactly have rock hard abs or a big juicy booty. My "O" face looks more like i'm about to spit out pea soup than sexy porno star.

Posted on December 26, 2009 at 7:43 pm
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lmao. Im sitting in a hospital working and just literally laughed aloud. Now people are staring at me. You are hilarious. I think my "o" face makes me look constipated.

Posted on December 26, 2009 at 8:02 pm
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Hahaha, oh no lol!

Posted on December 26, 2009 at 8:09 pm
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LOL Keturah!  I am not always so comfortable with my body and I feel like alot of times when we are dtd, I work too hard to strategically cover up certain areas of my body.  I know hes not even looking and scrutinizing, he is in the moment, so I dont understand why I put so much pressure on myself. I think alot of women do it though.

Posted on December 27, 2009 at 2:35 am
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I agree joy!  I do the same thing some times but then realize that he doesnt care or he woudnt be with me in the first place!!


Amanda Im just like you, cant do on top lol...I'm awful!!

Posted on December 27, 2009 at 3:06 am
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I could be better at foreplay. I cut straight to the chase and i think it would just be nice for the both us if i would just slow down and enjoy his body.

Posted on December 27, 2009 at 3:22 am
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I could be more of a "giver"  ...I just kind of let DH initiate , and Im usually the receiver of all the foreplay .... I also need to work on not being sleepy on his nights off ...I know he would like to do it more frequently than we do .... I guess in summation Im a bit of a lazy lover :/

Posted on December 28, 2009 at 1:01 am
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I think I need more help in the hand job department LOL. I always feel like I don't know what I'm doing.

Posted on December 28, 2009 at 2:18 am
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Oh that's a good one tktoups!

Posted on December 28, 2009 at 2:41 am
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I find when I give a HJ I feel like I am milking a cow.  LOL  Nope, not sexy.  Fortunitly it is not his preference.


I need help being on top.  I never know what to do.  I just end up with sore legs.  ;(


ALso like niecy I am always tired at night.


 

Posted on January 3, 2010 at 6:35 am
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I suck at being on top as well, I also have found myself to be getting lazy in the initiation as well

Posted on January 3, 2010 at 7:41 am
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Actually when Im on top I prefer it when he does the work .... that is one of the best  :)  

Posted on January 6, 2010 at 6:30 am
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Oh my hand jobs kick butt (according to fi by words and actions if you kwim)!


I am not good at 69... not at all :(  i get into it and forget that I'm supposed to be doing something too...

Posted on January 6, 2010 at 6:44 am
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I just get BORED with HJs. I feel like after a while, I'm tired, it's taking FOR.EV.ER and he's having a great time but I'm just sitting down there thinking about what to make for dinner and when is my W2 gonna be there etc etc. 


This is terrible, but once he looked down and I had my head in my chin and I wasn't even looking at him, LOL. He was like "havin fun?!" 


.......oops?

Posted on January 6, 2010 at 9:02 am
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I like to be on top but my weight plays a BIG part in how long I can stay on top...  After a few minutes my hips & knees start hurting...  My FI loves BJs and in the past I have been VERY good at them, but not with him...  It takes FOREVER and I can NEVER get him off like that...

Posted on January 7, 2010 at 3:23 pm
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lmao@ katie.  The expression in your profile pic makes me just be able to picture you all bored and doing errands in your head while you're giving him a HJ.  Too funny!


 

Posted on January 7, 2010 at 4:24 pm
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I'm bad at being on top.  I just am.  Nothing comes naturally there and I have no rhythm or coordination there.  It's so embarrassing.  LOL

Posted on January 7, 2010 at 4:25 pm
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need help initating... im so bad at that.. even though i think about DTD daily i almost never go for it unless he starts

Posted on January 9, 2010 at 11:02 am
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@ Niecy, I am the same way.  I mean he enjoys it and he gets attention though there are a few things that I could do more often.  ;o)

Posted on January 23, 2010 at 4:28 pm
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I could quit being so lazy :)  I make him do all the work quite often.

Posted on January 24, 2010 at 3:10 am
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