Thoughts/advice on not ttc
I guess my question is what makes you want kids? I know it sounds like a stupid immature question, but I am trying to figure out why I am not excited about starting this part of our lives.
I am just curious...I think about having kids sometimes, but I still can't think of a reason to have one...Is there something wrong w/ me? lol,. I think maybe I am thinking this now because the timing is not right (which it isn't financially) ? but I wonder if it was right would I want to have one? I am sure there are a lot of factors that might change my mind, but I just wanted to ask. Maybe I secretly want one, but don't know it lol...or sometimes I think if it just happened unplanned maybe that would force me to have the feelings you're suppose to have. I adore my nephew as he were my own and babys are just so cute!...so I'm sure when we do have kids it will fall into place :)
on a side note: It makes me happy to come to the boards and see everyones BFP's :D