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So, I am wondering- how long is too long???


My husband seriously goes an hour+ every time! I think it's too long- I get tired and my mind goes somewhere else. I have tried so many tricks in the book to make the firework blow sooner. I got it down to about 45 mins once... I'm getting so tired!


Advice? Tricks?

Posted on July 12, 2010 at 4:34 pm
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NicolenMoe
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nope i havent figured that out , if ya do let me know , on occasion i get what your saying, however i think i rather have it be our regular 45 to hr then 5 mins an done

Posted on July 13, 2010 at 2:06 am
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Dh only lasts super long when he's been drinking and that gets frustrating because usually if I'm going to "go", I will do it in 20 minutes time. Any more after that, it's just not gonna happen, but DH will get it in his head that he can MAKE IT HAPPEN. Then I hate to say it, but I get tired and bored.


I've found that going down on him beforehand is a sure-fire way to make him go quickly. When I do it, there's a lot of teasing involved to make the anticipation that much greater. Also, lots of kissing - like heavy, p0rno make-out type of kissing. Also, dry-huumping. Sounds silly, but it totally works for us.

Posted on July 13, 2010 at 5:41 am
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I just want to get it to 30-45 minutes as the norm. lol 5 minutes would not be ok either. I am like BlissfulKate... 20 minutes and I'm good and it gets very hard for me to go on for 30 minutes after that.

Posted on July 13, 2010 at 12:23 pm
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OMG!  I would die of exhaustion if it was that long.

Posted on July 15, 2010 at 7:13 am
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Uh...agree. Past about 20-30 minutes I'm over it. I start thinking about that book on my bedside table that I'm wanting to read or the fact that I'm thirsty...whatever, you get the idea lol. 

Posted on July 15, 2010 at 8:14 am
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Me too girl.. anything longer than 20 is enough already. My mind starts to wander to the grocery  list and other things that need to be done around the house.

Posted on July 15, 2010 at 8:22 am
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LOL…15 max. for me! Then I’ll start the acting part J hon, I really have to go pee… then its done in a minute…LOL

Posted on July 15, 2010 at 8:36 am
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wow, thats way too long! 20min is enough for me. I know know what advice to give you...he can't last that long when its just him (kwim?) ask him what he does when its just him. I know when DH and I haven't done it in a while he finishes a lot faster.

Posted on July 15, 2010 at 9:08 am
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I'm good after like 15mins! I couldn't handle going that long!

Posted on July 15, 2010 at 3:19 pm
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15-20 minutes is perfect for me too!


Like you girls, I get thinking after I'm done.... and none of it is sexual! I just want him to finish!

Posted on August 7, 2010 at 12:19 pm
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I feel bad that I hope he gets there in 10-15 minutes max, otherwise we both usually give up and go to sleep. 

Posted on August 13, 2010 at 2:15 pm
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omg, my DH varies but an hr yikes id b saying ''r u done yet'' unless a lot of it is for play then id b loving it... usually 15-20mins of the in n out stuff TMI, LOL

Posted on August 21, 2010 at 7:53 pm
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Yeah, I'm more of a twenty minute girl myself.  On occasion its been longer too, and once I've gone I'm like "okay, how can I help move this along?!"  haha.

Posted on August 22, 2010 at 12:53 am
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20 minutes or so.


Posted on August 22, 2010 at 1:26 am
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How can you walk after that?! FI isn't super quick, but it's usually fine. Not counting foreplay, it's usually about 15 mins. If it happens to take him a while, then he just finishes himself off; otherwise I'd go completely raw inside.

Posted on August 24, 2010 at 2:34 am
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45 mins!! Ouch girly, how do you not get so sore down there! Im not sure of any trick's to make it faster. If we went for that long, lets just say I wouldn't have a crotch anymore, it would be ripped apart!! TMI lol!

Posted on October 21, 2010 at 4:04 am
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I know. And it's still the same, no matter how I spice it up. I even tried that ice trick! haha

Posted on October 25, 2010 at 9:32 pm
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Oooo you tried the ice ?? How was it? I want to try it, but DH is scared for me, Im like wth lol

Posted on October 26, 2010 at 3:42 am
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I have had this issue since we met 45-1 hour minimum....I mean it doesn't take ME long at all and initially it made me think WTF is wrong with me that it has to take you this long dude?


Nothing seems to work to speed it up......NOTHING....The next day is just sore thighs and glutes....smh....

Posted on October 26, 2010 at 3:59 am
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This is one of those posts that I have read and thought to myself...I am NOT the only one out there thinking the same thing!! We are easily 45 min to an hour and it sometimes makes me not want to even start.  I feel awful for thinking that!!

Posted on October 26, 2010 at 4:39 am
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