tips and tricks for going down?

So FI keeps bringing up BJ's more and more. I want to try it but i'm more afraid I won't be good at it. Tips? Tricks? 

Posted on September 5, 2011 at 5:22 pm
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I think the best advice out there is to just be enthusiastic. If you go in to it dreading it and not wanting to, he will be able to tell and it won't be as fun for either of you!


How about this- blindfold him, and tell him that you're going to surprise him, but the rules are he has to guess what you're going to do each time- odds are he's going to "guess" what he wants out of you, and help you along the way!

Posted on September 6, 2011 at 11:13 am
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get creative, it doesnt always need to be all or nothing, kinda like teasing him before you give it your all i know dh likes that

Posted on September 8, 2011 at 11:53 am
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Ditto about be enthusiastic about it. Make sure you show him that you WANT to please him!


Also, make a ring with your fingers and you use that simultaneously with your mouth. Your guy will love it!


I really wouldn't worry about being bad at it - unless you bite him, I highly highly doubt your guy will think you're bad at it :)

Posted on September 8, 2011 at 1:32 pm
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Eye contact! Don't worry about being good or bad. It's kinda like sucking on a big popsicle in 90 degree weather.

Posted on September 9, 2011 at 2:20 am
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Agree! Enthusiasm is key! I will never forget right before I gave my ex oral for the first time I asked my best friend who is basically my older sister how to do it, and she said imagine you're licking an ice cream cone. Sounds weird, but it works!


Use your tongue and be sure to use your hand a bit as well. Confidence is sexy, so remember to keep eye contact! :)

Posted on September 12, 2011 at 4:15 pm
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I used googled and read many blogs and got lots of helpful tips and tricks. Confidence helps and I think the more you want to do it the better. Watch his face and listen to his moans and groans - that's when you know you're doing something he likes! Or just plain out ask him to tell you if he's enjoying it or what it is that he likes.

Posted on April 10, 2012 at 11:14 am
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from a man's perspective (i'm assuming) there can't be a bad BJ unless you flat out bit him! Just having his woman/SO attempt to do it is a turn on (i would think)

Posted on April 14, 2012 at 2:22 am
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Lots of lube(saliva)....noises....eye contact.  Enjoy it.  :-)

Posted on April 27, 2012 at 8:24 am
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My fi is weird and actually likes it rough, he wanted me to bite him I found that weird but he was totally into it. That's all that matters
Posted on June 8, 2012 at 9:38 am
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sipping something hot or coffee before BJ..it will give him the ohlalala feelings..

Posted on June 13, 2012 at 11:59 am

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