My wedding is October 18th 2014, is it too son to start planning? I have looked all over for my dress and the style is really hard to find. It will be Mideval inspired, possiblly different shades of purple with gold accents but I haven't set anything in stone. My friend is making our daughters dress to be a miniture of my own so I wanted to pick my dress ASAP. My fiance thinks it is too soon to start planning but I want to get the invitations out because most of our friends are out of state, and I want to pick my dress so my friend has enough time to make my daughter's dress. Am I overreacting and jumping the gun? Should I slow down?