U do know its a honeymoon right?!

So my friend asks us when were going to VEGAS for our mini moon so I tell her the dates. And shes says cool me and my new man/hubby/fling can plan a trip down there as well.  (insert confused look). 


 


I remember when she planned her wedding before (her ex fiance) she wanted a DW in vegas and just wanted all her friends to be there not really alone time with her hubby, which was weird to me but to each there own. But thats not what WE want. I try to dismiss it but everytime she asks the dates I feel like shes at the computer checking flights etc. Idk what to say i dont want to hurt her feelings but um Its our honeymoon and on top of that this is our first getaway after having baby #5 we really need the alone time. What do i say our do i ignore her or give her false dates?

Posted on March 3, 2012 at 4:26 am
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Thats ok FMIL said to me that she has to use her timeshare in june and wanted to know if we can have a "family moon"! seriously!

Posted on March 3, 2012 at 4:28 am
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A family moon? WTH do ppl not think a honeymoon is private?

Posted on March 3, 2012 at 4:30 am
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I know right!! Well im surprising my FI with a mini moon they day after the wedding for a few days just to get away alone :)

Posted on March 3, 2012 at 4:54 am
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omigosh a family moon!!!LOL that's new-D out of curiosity what did you tell your FMIL suzannerice?


@Bkpinkbride i would just simply tell the friend the truth or maybe insert in a conversation about how you are really looking forward to the honeymoon so you guys can "finally get away and have time alone to yourselves!" Hopefully she would take a hint-)

Posted on March 3, 2012 at 6:48 am
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I agree I would tell her the truth.
Posted on March 3, 2012 at 7:27 am
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how can somebody feel hurt when I say: I would love to spend my honeymoon only with my husband! Only with him.


 


How can somebody feel hurt because of that? I meen its not that you dont love her. She is not your husband, and you want to be with him. Yust the two of you. thats all. Just say that :)

Posted on March 3, 2012 at 7:32 am
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ummm.


I would just be honest... Tell her sorry it's your honeymoon and you want it to be just the two of you. Then just add that maybe you guys can plan a future trip together.

Posted on March 3, 2012 at 7:36 am
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People never fail to amaze me. My mom suggested we stay with my step dad's cousin on Kauai. We have never even met them! Why would we want to stay with anyone let alone people we don't know?

Posted on March 3, 2012 at 9:40 am
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Definitely let your friend know that your honeymoon is for just you and your hubby to be. Say it gently of course but yea... honeymoon is for the happy couple only! :)

Posted on March 3, 2012 at 9:53 am

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