I got engaged in March and am getting married in October of the same year. My mother thinks it is just unheard of to get married six months after getting engaged. My parents never voiced any concerns at all to me regarding my fiance. We get engaged and all of a sudden they've got nothing good to say about him at all. Darts have been thrown between my fiance and my Dad ever since my Dad jumped all over my fiance because I'm moving to where my fiance lives. My parents are totally disregarding my feelings and my mother hasn't even told me one Congratulations or that she was happy for me. My parents don't metion my wedding much less ask about my plans. When they do it's starts an arguemnt and I end up in tears. I've been planning my wedding behind my parents backs because it just starts an argument when it comes up. My parents don't even tell people about my engagment and even asked the preacher to pray for them because I was engaged. I'm serioulsy considering leaving home now instead of waiting til I'm married. How do I make my parents see that this is my life, my decision and if they don't like it and can't be supportive they need to butt out??...Oh yea...my mom guilt tripped me into letting her pay for my dress...wedding is in 5 months and she hasn't mentioned the first word about ordering it. Little does she know, jokes on her because I went and ordered and paid for it myself! This situation is killing me and my fiance! HELP!!!!