Vent about people who tick me off!! lol

If you don't like something about someone else's wedding, don't be such a b!tch that you knock it!!!!! I just find people to be SO rude. I realize that not everyone has the same taste in things but that gives NOBODY the right to knock other peoples things!!!!!!!!!! Your wedding things may not be my cup of tea but I would never in a million years out of nowhere without even being asked my opinion on it, say anything bad about it or call it tacky or whatever. Get a flippin life!!!!!!! Yeah some stuff in my wedding is cheap and isn't as nice as what I would like it to be. I don't have daddy's credit card to pay for my wedding. I'm a big girl, i'm paying 100% of my own weddings cost myself so bahhhhh to you!! If I had daddy and mommys help then yeah i'm sure I would have nicer things but considering i'm only 23 and paying for my wedding completely on my own in such a short amount of time I don't think i'm doin that bad of a job. Please keep your nasty, UNWANTED opinion to yourself!! I could say some things about your wedding that I didn't like but I don't understand the point of trying to hurt other peoples feelings. I just don't understand why you would do that to someone. Please grow a soul. :)


Second thing. Why must people wait until the last possible minute to get things done. My bridal party hasn't even bought their flippin shoes yet and the wedding is in less then 2 weeks. Now they're going around trying to find red flats and can't find any that fit. MAYBE YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE IT WHEN I TOLD YOU TO!!!!! They wanted me to keep looking for them but I finally said no (which by the way I am very proud of myself for doing lol)!! I have been looking for their shoes for them all for so long and they didn't like anything I was showing them. I don't have time anymore to do it for them so I told them they have to do it themselves. We'll see if they do or not. I had to go out and buy shoes for my MOH cause "she just doesn't have the time". Well get with the program dude I DON'T HAVE THE TIME!!!!! MOH lives in a different state and hasn't done ANYTHING that a moh should do but I can't ask my friend (who has actually shown an interest in my wedding and has helped me out numerous times and actually deserves the title) to be a matron of honor cause it'll hurt MOH's feelings. I don't want to do that cause I love MOH but she hasn't done anything and that pisses me off. SHe wants the title but none of the responsibility. She won't even say a toast at the reception. Even though I told her it was very very important to me she won't do it!! I can't have the bachellorette party I wanted cause MOH is pregnant and refuses to spend money while here so I can't go out because I can't afford to pay for her and her sister and me and if I go out without her she'll have to stay at home and it's not right to have her fly all the way here and then just ditch her. I can't get a hotel room the night of the wedding cause she doesn't want to pay for one and doesn't want to stay at my house without me being here so I have to come home on my wedding night just to make her happy and comfortable. It's getting rediculous!!!!!! This day is about ME and my FI, not anybody else. It's pissing me off that I'm having to worry about everyone else's feelings and do everyone else's jobs when I have SO much left to do for the wedding. FI's sister just called asking for directions to the church. IT'S CALLED MAPQUEST YA LAZY IDIOT!!!!!!!! This is what i'm talking about. People can do these things themselves but choose to be lazy and call us and have us do it for them. It's really not difficult to get on mapquest and look. I made a wedding website with a freakin link to the mapquest directions page for goodness sake!!!! I really could not have made things simpler!! 


Wow, it started off only being one thing and somehow turned into more and it would turn into even more if I keep going. Oopsies. lol I'm very frustrated and upset about a few things and can't really talk about it to anyone so i'm glad I have an outlet on here and you guys can listen and not judge. I feel bad that i'm angry with my moh for not participating more in my wedding planning since she's the one that said she was my moh in the first place, but it does. She has a life full of drama and everytime I try to talk to her she only can talk about her own stuff. It's getting to be rediculous. The world doesn't revolve around her and her problems and she should know that!! I know it doesn't revolve around me and my wedding too but I would like to talk about my wedding occasionally ya know. We've only been able to talk about it a few times since i've been engaged cause she won't talk about it!! I just wish that she would have made this once in a lifetime experience more enjoyable for me, not more stressful. She is now saying that she is planning on getting married sometime this year and I don't even think i'm going to be her moh and that pisses me off that I have put up with all of her drama and all of the stress that has come along with her being my moh and all the things i've had to miss out on to have her be my moh and she isn't even gonna have me be hers. I know that's rediculous that that makes me mad but it does. She isn't officially engaged yet so I don't know but I am guessing she won't ask me to be.  I just wish that she could be the friend to me I have been to her and be involved in my day like I was planning on being in hers (she was engaged before for a few weeks and I did SO much to help her in that few weeks but it fell thru but now she's saying she's engaged to the same dude she was before again. VERY confusing!! lol). I will probably delete this very soon. She's never been on this site before but if she ever started up a page and found this it would really hurt her feelings. I don't want to hurt her feelings and I don't want her to feel like i'm talking crap about her behind her back cause that's not what i'm doing. I just need to vent my frustrations out cause I can't hang onto them anymore!!


Thanks for listening ladies. I feel better now that I have vented!! lol I love that there's a place where we can unload our frustrations and not be judged for it and where we don't have to hold it in forever. I love it!! lol Thanks again!!

Posted on January 19, 2010 at 9:32 am
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DreamingOfYou
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I completely understand where you are coming from.  Glad that you feel better. 

Posted on January 19, 2010 at 2:43 pm
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ditto girl, I feel you on the maids thing! We love you and do what I do: knock back a bottle of wine. The world just looks better that way :)

Posted on January 19, 2010 at 3:18 pm
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You're coming back to your own house on your wedding night so that she will be comfortable? Instead of getting a hotel room with your new husband? No way!!! I'd be like, "Look, it's my wedding night. Unless you want to hear us getting it on all night long, either get yourself a hotel or get over your discomfort and stay there without me. Those are your options. If my wedding is too big of a financial burden on you I understand. We would love to have you there as a guest."


Sounds like your MOH is dictating waaaaaaay too much, and at this point it doesn't matter if her "feelings" get hurt---she needs to get a clue! You're right, in your first paragraph---it's your wedding and nobody else should judge or tell you how to do things. That includes your MOH! She needs to accommodate YOU on YOUR wedding day (and night!!!!!), not vice-versa.

Posted on January 20, 2010 at 3:11 am
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Rock on girlfriend .... glad you got it out .... now set your MOH straight ... she needs a reality check ...NOW!

Posted on January 20, 2010 at 3:49 am
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whoa gf!! you just sounded OFFF, way to go!!

Posted on January 20, 2010 at 5:30 pm

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