vent:: ex wife drama
I just have to vent a little bit here because I'm honestly sick to my stomach over this.
My husband married his high school girlfriend. They never had kids and have been divorced for over 6 years. She lives very very far away and we have no real contact with her at all. BUT, even 6 years later she keeps causing problems for us. She is 37 years old, has a masters degree, good job, etc....but somehow she can not take care of herself in any way and expects the rest of the world to pay for her.
We have had legal issue after legal issue with this woman using my husband's name on her bills that she doesn't bother paying, listing herself as living in our residence(she's never even seen this house), and other things like that. His name was still on her car that he co-signed for 10 years ago, of course they started calling him like crazy because she was delinquent, she was ruining his credit. He ended up paying the amount left on the car to save his credit but he entered an agreement with her for repayment since it's HER car...she is now trying to weasel out of that as well. He is set to talk with a lawyer this week about her fraud, identity theft, and other such issues but seriously we didn't want it to get to this point. All we want is to be done with her and forget she even exists!!
He made many mistakes in trying to be nice to her and keep things friendly. She is taking advantage of what a nice guy she knows he is. Who the hell does she think she is thinking she should get away with never paying her bills and dumping it all on her ex husband?!?! This b*tch dares to have herself listed as living with MY husband in MY home?!?!
We hate that we are going to be getting entangled in further legal battle with this idiot woman but we can't keep letting his credit be risked, our money, his identity, who knows what else she has his name on? It's just such a mess and I hate it. If she was simply a decent human being who took care of her own responsibilities and didn't lie to us and everyone else, we would not be in this situation. We have tried a couple of times to simply talk with her about it to settle it outside of courts and lawyers, but she just lies and scrambles to cover her crap, then she doesn't keep to any agreements any way!
ugh I just want to scream!!!! Thank goodness they never had any children in this mess. Anyone know where I can get a magic wand to wish her away??