Very bummed :(

I had discussed with my DH perhaps rather than us having a 5 year vow renewal in St. Lucia, perhaps we have a surprise vow renewal for my mom and dad.  They never really had a wedding or reception, I think they just got married quick and never had the excitement that surrounds a wedding.

I thought that maybe we could have the renewal ceremony for them instead of us, I mean I'm cool with being with my husband, having champagne and having a great dinner.

So my mom calls today and wants to stay at another resort (she's still thinking it's about us) rather than Sandals so they can try to use their time share...I know I know...they can save a lot of money but I had wanted everyone to stay with us at Sandals even if we had to pay for them as well.

I guess I'm bummed because whenever I originally ever plan something she always wants to divert and do something else...perhaps I'm too sensitive today but I feel the plan has been ruined and now I am just re-thinking the whole thing...ugh

Posted on December 10, 2013 at 11:40 am
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 Aw no, that does sound like a bummer. Are you still going to plan the renewal? I think that is such a sweet sweet idea and so generous of you! I hope you can make it work some how!

Posted on December 10, 2013 at 11:54 am
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 That's beautiful!  Habibi's patents never really had a honeymoon so we gave them one this year!  We took them with us to Vegas. We paid for everything, and even provided spending money. I think it is a beautiful idea. They had a simple wedding like us, but they don't want a renewal so I figured honeymoon will do!  If you can still get away with it, I say do it!!!!

Posted on December 11, 2013 at 12:18 pm
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How sweet. If thats what you want I say go for it.
Posted on December 11, 2013 at 7:15 pm

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