People say you shouldn't wear a big white dress to a vow renewal....what your thoughts about that?
I say do what makes you happy!
During my vow renewal planning process, I received major judgements from family and even other brides. This is what I have to say. TO HELL WITH ALL OF THEM!!! Wear whatever you want to wear. Do whatever you want to do. This is YOU and your DH's day!!! No one else's. You need to do what makes you feel right and if that means wearing a white dress or a rainbow colored dress, go for it.
That's what David told me ;)))
I wore an ankle length white linen sundress for our wedding. For our renewal I'm planning on something a touch fancier, but not the traditional big white wedding dress. Not because I don't think it's appropriate, but because it's just not my style. Wear whatever makes you feel beautiful!
Every little girl/woman has her ideal wedding in her mind, and I don't feel you will rest until you do it your way. This is our day, and finally, we get to do it our way. I had some people carry on so much, that we really had to think if we even wanted to invite them! We decided to invite, and if they had any comments if they loved and RESPECTED us they would stay silent for the night!
I am having the gown I could never afford before, and it will be great! The best part is by renewing our vows we know exactly what we are getting into!
Honestly...let those who have a problem with a white dress for a renewal kick rocks with open toe shoes!! What is purer then a marriage that has lasted?? Most people dont make it past the 5 year mark! So if you want a diamond white gown go for it! Heck most women who wear white arent VIRGINS!! How bout that!
......people also say you should wear white the first time around.....I wore purple......guess what I'm wearing next time.......It's your special day;it's your husband's special day. Ne-sayers can say whatever.....Are they renewing their vows or are you renewing yours? No matter how you slice it it's called being a hater. Let's rename this thread "It's called BEING A HATER!"
Most of our friends that got married the same time we did, are on their 2 or 3rd marriage, or just divorced. I am not judging them, why should they judge me? My hubby is just as excited about the renewal as I am and thats all that matters!
I agree, if I want to show up in underwear with little dragons on it , who is anyone to judge? My wedding, my money, my day.
Now I want underwear with little dragons on it to wear under my dress. May have to flash a few people while I am at it. Heheheheheheehehehehe!
i do apologize for being blunt ...but... i wouldnt give a care about what people say...if they were really there for you then they would respect your decision because they know this is what what makes you happy....Its your day whether you go ALL BLINGED OUT or have a casual lunchon its totally up to you.... my husband and i never had a wedding when we got married... so for our renewal we decided to have a semi-formal outside wedding OUR WAY....not the traditional way....Do what make you feel BEAUTIFUL....