I think we're going to do everything completely different! We had such a small ceremony, that I really want to go all out this time.
Well, DH and I eloped in Aug 2002. It was private. We didn't tell anyone until about 1 month later. The elopement was horrible. I ended up becoming very ill. I almost passed out during the ceremony. I don't remember half of what went on that day since I was so sick.
This time around, hopefully, I will be in good health..lol. I will have a wedding dress this time around. DH will be in a tux. We have adaughter, so she will be our flower girl. We are having it in a swanky glam hotel. We invited only close family. Parents, brother, etc. I have no clue if they will show up or not. Half the time they say yes, and the other half they say no. I guess we shall see when the day comes.
It will still be very small, but on a swanky, glam, expensive scale.
We are goign all out. We're even doing the bouquet and garter tosses. We both have HUGE families, so are 215 people on the guest list, Only 5 of those people aren't family.
The first time around, we did the civil ceremony without much funfare (family & friends) because we were both struggling students at the time. This time around, it is going to be the whole shebang (church wedding and huge reception with about 250-300 guests).