wedding hair crisis

I am in a crisis. Right now I could doubt my whole look...


but let me hop I got almost everything right. but i think i hate the hair. my friend did it iand she did it well. and she did what i asked for,... but i start doubting it looks nice and it looks like me.


i dont know. i want a look which is regal and timeless. and i feel my hair is too thin for that style. i look like a flousy poodle....


the proportion is not right when i look at it. but what should i do. skip the hairstyle? skip the crown?


get sth else? I have only 13 days...


 


 


 


 


 

Posted on June 11, 2013 at 8:28 am
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Do you have a picture?

Posted on June 11, 2013 at 8:38 am
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When you did your hair trial, you were absolutely gorgeous! I think because you are so close to your date you are worrying and second guessing yourself because you want everything to be perfect. It will be, because your vision is flawless and so are you! Your tiara is perfect and was made just for you, so there is no way you can not wear it! Just breathe, drink some tea and everything will be as beautiful as you!

Posted on June 11, 2013 at 8:39 am
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my dad said i looked bleach, he did not like it at all and my mum thought my hair was too thin for the look. now i am sad. because i dont want to look beah on the tha day

Posted on June 11, 2013 at 8:51 am
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What I learned during my wedding journey is no matter what, someone is going to not like something and someone is going to have an opinion that is different from what you think. Did you think you looked bleached or that your hair was too thin for the look?  We all thought you looked fabulous and regal. If I listened to every opinion someone told me, I wouldn't have gotten married! I stopped asking people what they thought or I didn't share anything until the day of. It is too close to your wedding day to start second guessing yourself. If you feel this way about your hair, then I say change it, but don't change it because your parents don't think it looks good. What matters is how you feel. It is your day!

Posted on June 11, 2013 at 8:57 am
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but the thing is.... i dont feel god like that. i like it from the front. but from the side i look like my baby lets my skin shine through. and worst of all i dont feel like  i look pretty. i feel like i am wearing someone elses style. it looks sweet but i need sth more austere. and with my baby thin hair it looks worn out. the only thing is that changing the style means letting off the tiara which is causing so much trouble because of its hight

Posted on June 11, 2013 at 9:11 am
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Ok, I looked at your pics again and I really don't see something bad with your selected hairstyle. I still think you look realy awesome!!!


But, if you don't feel comfortable with it or you want to try something similar.. maybe try the style you have on this pic..


Ok I looked at photo 3475109-1


...but make it a little higher like the one you have with the tiara? With this hairstyle your hair looks quite thick, and if you make it higher you will still have the same effect with the tiara from the front

Posted on June 11, 2013 at 10:33 am
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Have you thought of getting extensions? If you want to do that hairstyle and your hair looks thin, you could get extensions to add volume to it. Ask your hair stylist.

Posted on June 11, 2013 at 8:39 pm
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It's okay honey!!! I really agree that you are second guessing everything because it's so close to the big day and you are nervous-  that's okay too! If you remember, I HATED my hair trial and chose to have them try something new the day of - there are no rules and if you want to do that, it's ok. It's a risk, but worst comes to worst you can have them try something and then redo it that same day. Just give yourself plenty of time for hair and makeup!! (That part you can plan for now)


BUT - if you are talking about this picture:Ok I looked at photo 3475109-1 I am not lying when I say it's stunning on you!! You wanted regal and timeless and honey this nails it!! Truly. So I really do think this a great look, but don't be worried if you want to change your mind.

Posted on June 12, 2013 at 1:48 am
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I think it looks great, but I agree with some clip on extensions. They would give you that extra umph you want

Posted on June 12, 2013 at 2:02 am
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I had not even thought of extensions. That would definitely give you the volume that is needed. The picture that is being shown, if I am correct, this is not the hairstyle you were going with for your big day, but honestly, this one is perfect for you. It is timeless, classsic and very regal. This hairstyle is actually the look I think you are wanting to achieve. What do you think?

Posted on June 12, 2013 at 2:29 am
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girls ,this is exactly what i mean.... you ladues nailed it without knowing


the style i plannedon was this one:


girls this is exactly photo 3475368-1girls this is exactly photo 3475368-2


but i feel like it looks fuzzy and too much. this is a southern belle hairstyle whih requires more hair and a girlier character and dress. I am not girlie....


and  i look like a chicken without feathers... she did it well but it doesn´t respect the proportion of my profile and personality.... and nonobdy told meeeeeeeeee, but they did not like it at all. my daddy told me it was ugly.


t is a pretty style but it is not me.


so what i really want is ... exactly what you posted!


either sth like i had at my dress trial on the pic you all posted or a simple a bit bigger chignon like the one below.


girls this is exactly photo 3475368-3


yesterday i was in milan for o quick stop to see my friend sbefore the wedding. and i told my dearest "nan-of.choice", a lday who is dear to me like a mother, what my problem was... we hopped the stores and found a very pretty delicate haircomb...and bought it. so i will talk to my hairdresser today and ask her to do sth as in the picture or similar. sth really simple and classic...


i should feel far better then:-))

Posted on June 12, 2013 at 5:32 pm
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Oh Nicole, I bet the Chignon will look stunning on you. You are a really classy and elegant Lady and I think this will be the best coice for you!


I really would love to see a pic of the haircomp honey :)


 

Posted on June 13, 2013 at 2:06 am
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Nichole, I love this look for you - you are simply breathtaking in this photo!!!


Nichole I love this photo 3475394-1


I agree with wolfmaure about extensions if you want the extra volume.  :-)

Posted on June 13, 2013 at 2:14 am
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There are some beautiful styles out there that can be done with twists or braids. If you want it up then check out some of these elegant updos. I've been looking at a few of them myself, but I think I need to decide on a mask before I figure out my hairstyle.

I've been looking at the pics on Choisr for a few things. I like the Pinterest style and I can browse it without having an account.

Posted on June 13, 2013 at 7:19 am

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