Wedding Theft......

I wonder if it's just me....if I'm the only one so excited about finally having my dream wedding.....that I get slightly flustered at the thought of others who are engaged stealing my ideas.  I have a sketch of my dress that I have been dying to post....I want to show off the rough draft of my cake.  I want you to see the demo pair or shoes my friend made....I just don't want the cat completely out of the bag.  Should I post these treasures or mine ladies?  Am I being too stingy?  Or does anyone really care enough to snatch my photos?

Posted on March 5, 2011 at 10:47 am
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I COMPLETELY understand. I am the same way. There were things I had for my vow renewal this past August. I posted about these things a long time ago and then it seems that every tom dick and harry now has to have them.


Personally, I say keep them to yourself and if you do decide to share them, only share them to people who you know won't take the ideas.

Posted on March 5, 2011 at 11:01 am
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I know you won't.  I have the skecth of that dress that I wanted you to see.  & I don't want my cake leaked either.  After the wedding I don't really care.  I just don't want my stuff to be EVERYWHERE.  I thought it was just me, lol  I feel better now (:

Posted on March 5, 2011 at 12:01 pm
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No, it's not just you. I really wish I would have kept some things a secret. We are doing a second vow renewal. There are things now that I will keep secret. Well I might tell a few people, but I know those people won't say anything.

I am dying to see your dress sketch and your cake idea. Maybe you can PM it to me or e-mail it to me if you like. :0)
Posted on March 5, 2011 at 12:17 pm
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You have been PMed.


To go with our theme the birds on top are being changed to a Peacock to represent me, and a Phoenix to represent him (:

Posted on March 5, 2011 at 12:39 pm
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I wouldn't call it theft...but flattery!  It's highly unlikely that you will be attending the same wedding/renewl as others on this site, and sharing ideas is a.)fun for you and b.)helpful to others - a win/win idea!  Go ahead, share and help your fellow brides :-)

Posted on March 5, 2011 at 12:50 pm
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I know it is flattery Auntie, but there are just some things that I want my guests to see & just be awestruck & not have a chance of it be ruined.  I'm sure you have a few secret weapons of your own (:

Posted on March 5, 2011 at 1:17 pm
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Im with TheChicBride on this one. As much as I would LOVE to see your sketches, I know how it feels to have your ideas "stolen" before you can use them. What I've done is removed my pictures on my bio, changed it to friends only and I only post certain things. I share a lot through PM since for me it seems like a more genuine connection and I feel like I get honest feedback that way. If I am in a AW mood then I go to the main forum or if I want to see what the masses on PW would think about a particular topic. But whenever you are ready know the vow renewal ladies are here:)

Posted on March 6, 2011 at 5:26 pm
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I'm actually in the process of doing that myself.  Especially because we've paced ourselves the way that we did.  I'll be a PW Lady for a few more years and I really don't want to have my things used before I even get the chance to.  I've met great people and I enjoy talking to them.  So that's why I love it here.  So tell me what you think?

Posted on March 7, 2011 at 4:59 am
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Yes I see you are going to be here for a while...another reason for me to stick around :) I agree take it slowly and keep adding inspirations to your PW bio and when you are ready we will all be waiting:)

Posted on March 7, 2011 at 8:27 am
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Thanks Doll <3  I'd love to do it right away, but I know great things take time.  I am adding some things to my bio like I said to Chic since I have some extra time on my hands so feel feel to peek in on them.  Critiques are always welcome (:

Posted on March 7, 2011 at 9:15 am

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