What are some things you do together and things you do apart?
I think my biggest reality check was making sure that I had my own things going on outside of my relationship. FI lives and breathes tennis. I enjoy watching and playing the sport but it's not something I live and breathe. I had a hard time finding hobbies and other things I enjoyed when I first met FI. We were just always together ALL of the time and it became a little frustrating so now I am working on finding things that I like to do again.
Even though we become one in marriage, we are still both individual people and it's always important to remember that. What are some activities that you all do together and what are some things you like to do individually?
~We travel together, play tennis together, go out to eat/lounges/clubs together but for me, I enjoy reading, exercising, hanging out with my friends, surfing the net, shopping (of course), volunteering/mentoring, cooking, museums....I just had to find myself again and once I did that, things were MUCH better.
Any thoughts, issues or conflicts? Please share :-)