what are you doing differently?
What (if anything) are you doing differently than a traditional wedding? I think my husband and I will walk down together for our ceremony blessing.. but I do want bridesmaids and best men and flowergirls and all that.. even though I read that you shouldn't have a bridal party- blah to that.. and at the reception we're dancing to clint black and lisa hartman *when I said I do* (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XoZC0Lkji2A) but I don't think it will be like the "everyone watch the first dance" type thing, more like a dedication to each other and everyone else can dance too.. and I think I want to dance with my dad, because I never got to do that the first time around either, but I don't want that to made a big deal out of either.. and do we cut the cake and all? I just have no idea.. because for us this really is like our first wedding.. we only had 20 people the first time.. and now there's going to be 200.. and with paying so much money I do want to do everything I want to do, I just don't know what's the *norm*. So I'd love to know exactly what everyone else is planning on doing! Or how it's been if anyone's ever been to a vow renewal ceremony. Thanks! :)