What are your "areas" that will take a little more work?
And no telling us everythings perfect, rainbows and butterflies - thats crap - you know it and we know it :)
For us it's equal treatment of the children ..... DH tends to be a little harder on my girls and my stepson (which is actually DH's stepson from his 1st marriage) than he is on my stepdaughter .... (his only child by birth)
I am guilty of this too actually Im harder on my girls than his kids ..... but thats because they are my stepchildren and they have a mom and I dont want to be the wicked stepmom -
So I point out when he is unfair .... and we both are working on making sure we discipline and set rules equally for all of them ....
I understand that he is going to feel more and differently towards my stepdaughter because she is essentially his only child by birth , but she gets away with stuff no one else does .... lately Ive been trying to call it out when I see it ... (which probobly comes off real bitchy) but I really don't think DH realises in what ways he is treating the kids differently -
i also have been trying to go ahead and exercise my right as an adult and correct my stepkids when necessary ..... I know Im not doing them any more favors then Im doing my own girls by not saying anything just so they won't be mad at me ....