What do you guys think?

Hey girls so i got this message on myspace from one of my "friends" and this is what she wrote....


 


so i have a confession... every time i see ur pic on my friends list thingy i don't click it cuz i get this jealousy feeling. totally weird i know but it's because ur getting married! i'm jealous, i know its going to be beautiful and have "you" written all over it. i just think my wedding sucked!! and i literally cried at my friends' weddings cuz they were so beautiful, and no i don't need sympathy. that's just how i am about things. i want everything perfect, and i get upset if it doesn't work out.
anyway you must be living in bliss right now before the actual wedding bliss. *sighs* i know the feeling! i hope everything plans out just right, and no matter what i know you'll look beautiful that day. good luck!


My fiance thought she was a B-Witch without the W... so instead of not inviting her, i did.. what do you guys think about that?


Adriana

Posted on September 16, 2008 at 6:34 am
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She sounds like she is having personal problems and shes not sure how to deal with them. I find it werid that she would even write something like that to you. I can kind of understand where she is coming from, but still don't get what she was trying to accomplish by posting that. I think that you should invite her and maybe let her know that you know she has problems so if she doesn't show its okay...I don't think I could have invited her after that!

Posted on September 16, 2008 at 6:43 am
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she sounds very insecure. 

Posted on September 16, 2008 at 6:53 am
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defineitly has personal issues she's trying to deal with in regards to her wedding. but she didn't once put you down. she sounded longing and of course jealous... i would still invite her and maybe give her a call and remind her how beautiful her day was.

Posted on September 16, 2008 at 6:54 am
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it's got nothing to do with you per se - but listen to her - she IS jealous!


she feels inadequate


dont worry about it - keep on truckin!!


and after THAT comment, i'd stay clear of her... at least she was honest instead of making excuses - but still - you dont need the stress

Posted on September 16, 2008 at 6:56 am
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She does sound very insecure. One thing caught my eye. She mentioned that she doesn't need any sympathy, but the rest of her message states that she clearly does. She needs people to assure her that her wedding was wonderful. I think it's good you invited her. She didn't say anything to bring you down, she probably just needed to vent.


 

Posted on September 16, 2008 at 6:58 am
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Wow. Usually people don't say anthing when they are jealous so it is very strange that she would say that to you. Maybe she was trying to give you a compliment in a weird way.... I think it is strange that she told you because how are you supposed to take it? Either your going to get weirded out... or you are going to be flattered. Who knows what she wanted you to say. I don't think she wants you to uninvite her to the wedding... and it might make her more jealous if you happened to uninvite her.


This is just really weird. haha. It probably helped her get a lot off her chest telling you this as well.


 


:] Good Luck!


 

Posted on September 16, 2008 at 7:04 am
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yes exactly. i think she was trying to give you a compliment in a bizarre way. it was in the heat of the moment probably that she blurted that but its been bugging her for a while and she needed to tell you.

Posted on September 16, 2008 at 7:11 am
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at least she told you she was jealous...when i'm jealous i act like a big ol' beeotch!! :)

Posted on September 16, 2008 at 7:14 am
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haha behavioral science major here :) 


She is insecure and seeing all of you and her other friends have these amazing weddings is making her feel like her own (for whatever reason) was inadequate.  And it isn't bugging her a little bit, it's something she dwells on, particularly when she sees how happy you are planning your own.  She is envious, which can be ugly.  Try not to take it personally.  And even though she says she doesn't want the sympathy, she does.  She wants more than anything for someone to go, "your wedding was AMAZING and YOU were gorgeous, what are you talking about!?!?!?!"  Envy & Jealousy...the ugliest of emotions.

Posted on September 16, 2008 at 8:03 am

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