What to do about a frustrating bridal party
I am the MOH in my Sister's wedding that is in two weeks. There are 7 bridesmaid: 2 of my sister's BFF's, my older sister, my niece, and the Groom's 2 sisters. My sister is based in Colorado Springs, so I have been the main point of contact for everything. But her bridesmaids REFUSE to communicate with me! It is getting so frustrating. My sister is arriving the day of her Bachelorette Party (THIS Saturday) and for weeks I have emailed them, texted them, left voicemails trying to see who would come, who could contribute what, and they never respond to me. I am so annoyed.
Finally I told my sister what was going on, because I am so worried about everything. She had me send another message on Friday and include that Sarah (my sister) was the one who asked me to send it and it was full of questions (bach party, hair appts for day of, confirming rehearsal dinner) not a single one of them got back to me. I wanted to write, "You know, facebook now lets me know you have read this message, so I know you just aren't responding." But I held my tounge. Today, Sarah emailed them and I kid you not within 45 seconds the two most frustrating girls wrote her back! I have never had a bad relationship with them, I have not excluded them in any way.
Planning this wedding has been more frustrating than my own!