What to do about a frustrating bridal party

I am the MOH in my Sister's wedding that is in two weeks. There are 7 bridesmaid: 2 of my sister's BFF's, my older sister, my niece, and the Groom's 2 sisters. My sister is based in Colorado Springs, so I have been the main point of contact for everything. But her bridesmaids REFUSE to communicate with me! It is getting so frustrating. My sister is arriving the day of her Bachelorette Party (THIS Saturday) and for weeks I have emailed them, texted them, left voicemails trying to see who would come, who could contribute what, and they never respond to me. I am so annoyed. 


Finally I told my sister what was going on, because I am so worried about everything. She had me send another message on Friday and include that Sarah (my sister) was the one who asked me to send it and it was full of questions (bach party, hair appts for day of, confirming rehearsal dinner) not a single one of them got back to me. I wanted to write, "You know, facebook now lets me know you have read this message, so I know you just aren't responding." But I held my tounge. Today, Sarah emailed them and I kid you not within 45 seconds the two most frustrating girls wrote her back! I have never had a bad relationship with them, I have not excluded them in any way. 


Planning this wedding has been more frustrating than my own!

Posted on October 8, 2012 at 8:33 am
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MrsCaleYoung
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I am so sorry to hear this and wowo. Did the bride convey to them that she APPOINTED YOU AS THE MAIN POINT OF CONTACT????? They are just being down right rude! Please have your sister have a talk to them. Jan from PW was gracious enough to handle my ceremony because my wedding planner bailed on me and my wedding party was not listening to her or following her lead and I was livid! I wasn't having it! Big hugs from me to you!

Posted on October 8, 2012 at 8:57 am
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That is REALLY frustrating! Like why couldn't they just email/respond back to you! Very irritating! I give you lots of props though because I would of snapped and been very rude! Lol

Posted on October 8, 2012 at 9:21 am
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That is so rude! They need to communicate with more than just a bride on a wedding.

Posted on October 8, 2012 at 10:11 am
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Ooh, I would be so freakin' mad! It makes being in a wedding no fun :( Almost have your sister be involved so they respond to her! seriously!

Posted on October 8, 2012 at 10:34 am
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ALL of her bridesmaids are doing this? Even your older sister and niece? I would be furious!

Posted on October 9, 2012 at 1:40 am

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