What we thought was a miscarriage

Ended up being an ectopic pregnancy that ruptured. 


I was rushed into emergency and went into surgery within an hour. I am now one fallopian tube less =(


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a little history...


DH and I were consistently in and out of the hospital. I took about 3 ultra sounds and they couldn't find any signs of pregnancy but my blood levels still showed I was pregnant! I would ask Qs but they would just say it was the process of miscarrying. There would be painful nights where I would find myself in the fetal position crying of pain. I would call the advice nurse and they would pretty much tell me to take somemeds and sleep it off. WTH. It got to the point where I would demand an explanationof why I was bleeding for 2 months and a half! Why my pain is still on going. All they would say is to come back the following week to take another blood test to see if my levels went down. 


Well, Wednesday at about 5pm, I got the WORST pains ever! With what the doctors said, I decided to stay and try and work through the pain. 3 hours past and I justcouldnt take it any longer. EFF WHAT THE DOCS SAID! I'm going in!!!


And so I did. More testings came back and what do you know! I had an ectopic pregnancy that ruptured hours ago!!


They transported me to a hospital where a gyno could assist. Before I knew it, I was in surgery. The docs removed my fallopian tube where the pregnancy took place. It was GINORMOUS!! 


The doctor said I am lucky!! Normallyu ruptured ectopic pregnancies lead into bleeding to death after about 15-20 minutes if not corrected by surgery. In my case, hours went by and all my vitals remained normal. They said what saved me is that the blood puddled opposed to spreading which reduced the toxins from spreading as well. I told the doc that I was not lucky... just blessed. 


So here I am... I've got a second chance at life! I can't complain.


PLEASE LADIES!!! If you ever feel like the docs are wrong, get a second opinion, a 3rd and a fourth! Make sure from the bottom of your heart that you trust and believe them. Do not be like me and just do what they say. If you don't agree, say it out loud and do something differently about it!

Posted on May 8, 2011 at 9:52 am
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alisonandjake
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Oh my gosh I am so so sorry. That is horrible :-( I'm so glad you are okay.
Posted on May 8, 2011 at 10:44 am
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wow. jaryce i'm so very sorry.

Posted on May 8, 2011 at 11:02 am
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That's terrible! I'm so sorry! Do u have grounds to sue?
Posted on May 8, 2011 at 11:13 am
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I am so sorry this happened :/  I am such a believer that if you know something is wrong and they're telling you otherwise, always get a 2nd opinion!  It never hurts anyone to do this.  So glad you're ok and I hope you're blessed with a healthy pregnancy after all you've been through!

Posted on May 8, 2011 at 2:10 pm
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Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry.  I can't even imagine what you're going through.  I agree with dorkmeetsnerd....  I think you should consult a lawyer for a medical negligence/malpractice lawsuit.  

Posted on May 9, 2011 at 3:26 am
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Oh, Jaryce, I'm so sorry! Glad to hear you're ok after all of that. I can't imagine what that must have been like. Wishing you a quick recovery! ((Hugs))

Posted on May 9, 2011 at 4:11 am
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Wow Jaryce, that is truly awful. I'm so sorry. I'm glad you are ok and hope you recover asap, look after yourself *hugs*

Posted on May 9, 2011 at 7:15 am
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OMG! I'm so sorry to hear you went through that all :'(


I can't believe everything that happened to you...*hugs* I hope you have a speedy recovery.

Posted on May 9, 2011 at 7:35 am
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wow- that sounds like a lawsuit- so sorry you had to go through that how horrible


 


feel better!

Posted on May 9, 2011 at 7:49 am
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Oh how horrible!!!  I am so glad to hear that you are okay and please take care of yourself.  Keep us updated on how you are doing please. 


I totally one million percent agree with you on if you don't like what the doctor/dentist/other medical professional said or diagnoses you with, get another opinion.  I'm having to deal with the aftermath of seeing a dentist who totally screwed up my mouth. 

Posted on May 9, 2011 at 10:57 am
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i just love my girls. Thanks for all the love and support! I am doing better =) A lot better. Just taking it slooow =)

Posted on May 9, 2011 at 11:01 am
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Oh my I am so sorry! I honestly would filing a suit against your doc. Your doc should have check for this and obviously didn't do his/her job. At least to pay for your medical bills. 

Posted on May 9, 2011 at 1:21 pm
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Omg I'm sooooooo sorry! Im so glad youre ok. You are blessed! This is outrageous. I bet you this dr has already contacted his insurance and lawyers!
Posted on May 9, 2011 at 2:49 pm
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So sorry to hear this, you take care of yourself love. Im really glad your ok. T.G.B.T.G!!

Posted on May 9, 2011 at 4:41 pm
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omg... (((hugs))) im so sorry you went through this huni... =( DR's often have no idea. i wish you lots of health n a fast recovery.


you are very blessed x

Posted on May 9, 2011 at 7:40 pm
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omg!! honey I am so sorry to hear this. wow... God definitely was watching over with this one. I hope you are healing well and pray that your recovery process is a speedy one. I can only imagine how hard it must be, but i also know you are a strong one. *muah*

Posted on May 14, 2011 at 11:45 am
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Praise God!  I'm so glad you are okay.  What a scary, scary time...He had his hand on you.  :)  You are so right about getting a second opinion.  Your health is always worth it!  Sometimes to realize it, though, you have to go through something like this.  Huge hugs to you!!!!  xo.

Posted on May 15, 2011 at 2:23 am

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