"Whether you like it or not"
THAT is what my SIL/BM told me today when I was talking about possibly getting the girls flowers for their hair..... apparently she bought herself a huge FEATHER hairpeice that she intends on wearing "whether I like it or not"... well.. I DON'T LIKE IT and she will NOT be wearing it!!!!!! None of my other girls are wearing anything, it doesn't go with the look of anything and never did she mention this before.
In an attempt at being civil, I sent her an e-mail letting her know I would like her to wear the flower for the formal pictures to maintain the coordination and she can wear her hairpeice afterwards.
Am I over reacting?