Which came first, the date or the venue?
We have begun looking at venues and we don't have a specific date in mind but would like Fall 2014. A venue I really liked was all booked and the earliest we could have it would be January 2015.
So my question is, which came first for you? For those of you that had a specific date you wanted to get married, I am assuming you had to be a little more flexible with the type of venue you wanted?
For those of you with a flexible date, did you look for the perfect venue and then book the date based on what they had available?
I am having such a hard time taking the plunge and committing to a venue because I am worried about booking and then later finding something better or more affordable!