Who do you confide in with DTD topics?

Been lurking for awhile and I thought it was time I joined!


Here is a question for everyone...


Who (besides the DTD  group) do you talk to sex about or go to for advice?


I honestly don't talk about sex with anyone! Since it is a taboo topic with my family, my sister and I have not really been open about it. Esp. since I am not married yet its difficult to be to verbal about it with my sister. I don't know what she will say. Only one of my close friends has a serious boy/f who she is DTD with but she is pretty private about it!

Posted on February 9, 2010 at 2:55 pm
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sofielion
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I'm pretty open about sex with most of my friends. Even my mom and my sister I can talk to. Since I've gotten engaged I've held back on some of the details because I don't need my friends knowing our business and commenting on it when they see us together. Now I'm probably more partial to my mom and sister because I know they can hold their tongues when needed.

Posted on February 9, 2010 at 3:18 pm
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oh, and welcome to the group :)

Posted on February 9, 2010 at 3:18 pm
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Arivera, I'm like you... I don't talk about it! My parents and I have sort of an unspoken "don't ask/don't tell" policy. I'm sure they know we DTD, and I'm sure they know FI and I stay over at each other's apartments... but we don't talk about it, and FI and I aren't moving in together until the wedding.


My sister let FI and I stay together in her guest room, but we don't talk dirty details at all. She understands where I'm coming from since we were raised to feel like all sex was taboo and must not be spoken of... we can roll our eyes about that together.


I don't have friends, so nobody else to talk to about it. :P

Posted on February 9, 2010 at 4:07 pm
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oh lord, my friends are a bunch of hookers. lol. jk. But we've always been really open about talking about sex and the dirty stuff. No one even blinks an eye at the word anal anymore, haha. But I definately dont talk to my family members about it.

Posted on February 9, 2010 at 7:54 pm
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Pretty much no one


 


My bestie and I do share and confide when it comes up ...but other than that ...just this group ;)

Posted on February 10, 2010 at 7:23 am
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my best friends, the two of them and I are about the same when it comes to sex and comfort levels- as in we're waaay too comfortable talking about it!


I'm really open about it, period, so I've been known to get into convos with coworkers, etc but we were a really close group too.

Posted on February 10, 2010 at 9:03 am
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My sister we talk about everything other than her its just betweem me and FI

Posted on February 10, 2010 at 9:31 am
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My best friend!

Posted on February 10, 2010 at 10:54 am
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My friend (actually, she's FI's best friend) because I see her most often.  When I saw her more, my neighbor~ the most open, opinionated, and creative woman you would ever meet!  Nothing is taboo for her, and I love her for it!  And I mis her, too, since I moved. But FI's BF is fabulous, I'm actually considering her for BM.  A very loving person, but sometimes I feel like a ho talking to her because I'm way more experienced than her.

Posted on February 10, 2010 at 11:05 am
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Depends on the specific topic.  If it's just "sex talk" like something funny, etc. I talk to my two best friends (not at the same time).  And only if I happen to be talking to them.  I don't call them up to chat about it.  And if it's something serious, or kind of TMI, I talk to one friend because we're all about TMI, especially since she had kids (People with kids are ALL ABOUT TMI).  She tells me her stuff, I tell her mine.  No judgement of course.

Posted on February 10, 2010 at 11:27 am
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I am pretty open with my sister and I have a friend that I can speak about ANYTHING with but other then I will skim over details. The only person I think I would go into details with lives in another pronice and I don see often.  :(

Posted on February 10, 2010 at 12:37 pm

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