Wow...that was rude!!

So I guess DH is not happy with all of the stuff I have been buying lately.  Instead of talking to me about it like a grown up, he left me a note that said "Ummm....are you saving money for Aruba?  OR are you wasting money on a bunch of $hit we don't need?"  Ugh, how rude... that was not a nice thing to come home to :/  He placed it on a package that arrived for me today!!  I guess it's time for a break for awhile *sigh*


ETA:  A break from shopping/decorating, not from him LOL!!

Posted on September 26, 2011 at 3:59 pm
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Oh hell no!!  He should have said something to you in person, not left a nastygram for you to find on a package!!  Sorry hun! :( 

Posted on September 26, 2011 at 4:32 pm
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Ouch! I'm sorry, Mel :-(


Is there anything he has had his eye on lately? Maybe you could leave him a note saying: "Sorry, babe. You're right. That package was actually the __________ you have been wanting. Don't worry, I sent it right back!"


:-))))

Posted on September 27, 2011 at 3:34 am
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Oh no!! :( Sorry Mel... def agree, that could have been said differently :(

Posted on September 27, 2011 at 3:34 am
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Yikes, that was really mean!!  Sorry Mel! :(

Posted on September 27, 2011 at 3:34 am
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LOL @ Debbie, that would be an awesome comeback!!

Posted on September 27, 2011 at 3:35 am
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Awww :( I'm sorry he talked (wrote) to you like that. If he's concerned about money, there are much kinder ways to discuss it. I wonder if in his guy head he thinks he left a little joke about your spending and doesn't realize how it came across.


And I LOVE Debbie's response! 

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ha ha- you should totally do what Debbie suggested!! :)

Posted on September 27, 2011 at 4:07 am
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The truth is, I do have packages coming for him since his b-day is in a few weeks! 


I think you are right FCTF...he claims it was all I joke.  I kinda don't buy it though.  I think he woke up in a bad mood, wrote the note, then went to work & realized that he was being a jerk & then instead of apologizing he says "I hope you aren't mad about that, I was just joking" (in a voicemail mind you).  Anyway, I am sure we will be fine once we can talk (damn opposite schedules...we go days without seeing each other sometimes!)

Posted on September 27, 2011 at 5:12 am
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He should have communicated it better.  To be optimistic though, once guys usually get it out they get over it.  So if he's backpedalling/clarifying a bit more now I'd take it as a good sign that he vented and has moved forward :)  Like you said before, if it wasn't for you he'd have all white walls and a futon!

Posted on September 27, 2011 at 6:52 am

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