You're outta here!
I've been having one heck of a week. I was thinking of bridezillas. I have come to the conclusion that it's the wedding party that turns the bride into a bridezilla.
FSIL was supposed to come out the end of May, to help FMIL look for a dress and to try hers one. FI told me that she isn't going to be able to come. WTF!? Why could she respond back to me earlier when I emailed her? So he said that she's going to Hawaii. Seriously??!! So now I have to take FMIL to look for a darn dress. UGH. Then FSIL said that I asked her to buy the wine for the wedding. I was so mad that I started yelling at FI saying " I have never asked her or anyone to buy s**t!!" I guess I was just pissed because I hate when people say things that I've never said.
My other BM's and I are supposed to go look at dresses May 8th. We picked that day because one of my bm's has a test for her MA degree on the 1st. So when I tell her that we are going on the 8th, she says "let me double check and I'll get back to you asap". UM hello!?? She was the one that said anytime after May 1st.
When I tell my FI that if she flakes I'm kicking her out. I will just say something along these lines: " You seem to have a very busy schedule, so I think it's best that you come as a guest and not be apart of the wedding party."
He got kind of upset with me and thinks I'm being dramatic. When I proceed to tell him that I am anything but dramatic, and that I shouldn't be working around their ( the bm's) schedule as much as I have been.
I should have waited to pick my bridal party. 2/5 are on the verge of striking out in my book.
Thanks for letting me have a major venting session ladies!!