Did anyone else have this problem? (Lost friend)

So I shared with my BFF that I was pregnant 4 weeks ago.....DH said I could tell her so I asked if she had time to grab lunch.  She did and I told her - she was also the only person who knew we were trying.  Up to this point she had been asking me how things were going in the TTC department so I thought she was really interested - I didn't bring it up on my own.  She seemed so excited - said she'd be there for me if my mom or sister couldn't make it (she is aware of DH's aversion to being in the delivery room), asked about the nursery, blah blah blah.


I haven't heard from her since....not a text, phone call, email, FB nothing.  I've been through this with another friend before.  Something happened that upset her but she refused to talk to me about it and just vanished - it wasn't necessarily something with me because that friend vanished from all of our mutual friends at the time.


I know things have been stressed in her marriage, so I'm not going to push - frankly I'm too old to chase someone who doesn't want to respond - I've reached out.....this just sucks.  I think I expected this on some level because while I'm sad, there is a part of me that is not surprised.  


Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this - it made me feel a little better to type it out, so thanks for being here, ladies - I don't know what I would do without you! <3

Posted on May 31, 2013 at 11:08 am
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I lost a couple of friends during my pregnancy, but I also made a couple too. A girl I had worked in the same department with was pregnant at the same time and we bumped into each other during our maternity leave and went for coffee, we have been great friends ever since.

It's horrible, and I'm sorry that this has happened to you, but you will find your true friends as your pregnancy progresses and your little munchkin arrives xx
Posted on May 31, 2013 at 11:45 am
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