What can I do to get my soon-to-be husband to love and accept my cat?
I've been struggling with this for the past couple months and it's starting to interfere a little bit with our relationship. I want to nip this in the bud and quick since we're going to be married in less than 3 months. And I don't want them to hate each other forever because us three are going to be a family. : )
My fiance' Bryon dislikes my calico Poonee Puff Princess, and Poonee Puff Princess really dislikes my fiance' because she knows he dislikes her and because he loves to irritate her! Irritate her such as saying,"SCAT!" when she's sleeping, riling her up, not letting her up on the bed when she wants attention; and this is making her act even more "b*tchy" towards me to where she's starting to bite me when I pet her. : (
Why does he dislike her? Good question. Maybe it's a jealousy thing? I've even stopped spoiling her. He only tells me, "he just doesn't like her & that we need to get a dog!"
We're taking pre-material therapy sessions and this was brought up, except our therapist didn't give much advice and talking one on one didn't help either.
He accepts her, but he doesn't like her. And that bothers me. Some men just don't like cats, I understand. But I'm really HOPING that she will warm up to him and he will warm up to her.
How could he not love her face?! lol